I got back from a small house party with some friends and wanted to get myself a hookup, so I messaged this girl I knew was into me and she said she wanted to go for a walk (early morning)

To which I responded, well lets do it then. I took her to this spot, we chatted and I brought up her obvious feelings for me. I then led her to a more secluded area and we hooked up. She mentioned not wanting to get hurt before we got down to the serious stuff.

After, we left and I got her number (didn't want it), she kissed me goodnight and now I have no idea what to do because i'm sure she thinks this is the beginning of something.

I feel awful, but I need advice; how can I get out of this?
I haven't seen her today or spoken to her, and she doesn't have my number.

Aww this poor girl!! Sorry - didnt mean to make you feel worse.

Just message her and be like "hey how are you?" or soemthing and then if she replies with soemthing which seems like she wants to date you then let her down gently. Just apologise to her for the hook up and be like "i really do think your a cool chick but to be honest I am just not ready for soemtjhing like this and because you are so great I think you deserve more than what I could give you at the moment."

I know it sounds cliche and everything but it kind of is the truth and its a good way of letting seomeone down lightly.

Some of the ones I used when leading boys on were similar to whzt I have mentioned - I would say things like "I think your a really cool guy and I thought I could do this but I actually still have feelings/unresolved issues for my ex and it isnt fair on you to put you through this" or things like "I wish I could give you everything that you deserve and it kills me that I cant".

Good luck!!

and that shit doesn't work on guys well. it doesn't 'let them down' easy at all. it actually makes it harder.

most guys would prefer you be a total bitch when dumping them.

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hahaha dude

the answer is obvious, just do everything that you were doing before you became good with women.

stuff like calling her everyday, smothering her, basically afc that just sends women packing


that or you could ljbf's her, not sure if that would help, a girl friend got a ljbf from a guy and it made her go for him even harder. they've now been dating for a year >:D lol