this girl...is perfect no bullshit. We are going out Sunday to the Metroplitan Museum and it sounds like she wants to spend the whole day together
I WANT MAKE THIS HAPPEN ! I'm afraid she doesn't see me as somebody she'd even consider fucking. I want to know how I can change that this Sunday. Shes the definition of a independent woman. shes like 23 and lives in front of Central Park, I still live with my roommates

How can I make her see me under new light ?
Even though I'm not as succesful as her, is there even a possibility ?

I appreciate the help guys.

ahh this comes down to value issues.. you gotta program ur ****ing brain to allow u to think that u can dominate over her... change ur lifestyle, become more productive... go to gyms and work out consistantly... dont be a pussy and work out where the chicks work out at. i suggest going to www.bodybuilding.com for help...
go out more and game other girls as well, become a sex machine and u will dominate over her

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Gotta Fuck em all! Pokemon!

Eye contact, Sexual tension, Kino, Escalate.

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with a cock in her mouth." ~60 Years Of Challenge

lmao hahahaha

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"Despite all the giggling, blushing and talk about having a deep connection, it all ends
with a cock in her mouth." ~60 Years Of Challenge

I already do work out consistantly and hate not doing shit. but your probably right about changing my brain thoughts. I guess this all comes down to playing my cards right

Dont fucking overthink it. Remember this sort of event is NORMAL to you in every way. Sure shes hot big deal? How friendly is she? Does she like the same things you do? Has she got the right attitude to be with you? Screen her and see if she meets YOUR high standards of girls. How do you know she is perfect? Have you known her for years and analysed every part of her character to know this sort of information.

Your not out there to impress , your out there to see what shes like and if shes worth being with a fun loving, confident guy. Do not plan anything ahead except maybe the logistics after the date. Remember this aint a big fucking deal. Just go in and enjoy and dont react to everything she says, dont always agree with everything she says and use your own sense of humour.

I know some of this stuff might not ring true at the moment but you must try to get into this mindset and not worry what she thinks of you. Your not out there to impress. You are your own MAN. If she dont like you then fuck her or you fuck her anyways.

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apprecaite the help.

I'll keep you guys posted.

be cool, stay calm and confident, she should be happy she is with you even tho you are a very busy person, hot girls like these are used to guys always sucking upto them, show her ur different and take charge, and have the type of mindset where if she leaves u, u can find another one without a problem, and try not to explain to much about urself, if she asks u a personal question, keep it simple and short and don't tell her the full story, make her wonder about u, make sure u show that u are interested in her, most guys are to chicken to convey to the girl they like her which is why they fall into the friend zone. and most important of all don't over think it, so what if shes hot and looks like she belongs in a playboy magazine?, there are plenty of other girls just like that

hope this helps good luck =]

how would you guys handle a girl that flakes ?
we were supposed to meet up earlier this morning but she asked me If I could for four o'clock ?

this isn't a flake, shes probly has to do something, its nothing to wrry about unless she cancels the whole thing,

don't worry

This is the issue mate.

1) don't give off the vibe that you are needy.
2) you need to work on your frame. If you don't see yourself as someone she would f close with, it is unlikely that she will.

Good luck.
Rich

The way I see you getting in here is breaking through the mental barrier which really is a little one. Just think of yourself as something good, and herlike any other girl. Think of some DHV, must be some "Kool" stuff about you.

Success is what you make it. Use kino at the museum, the hotter a babe is, the more i feel like making an good early impression is good.