Hi, i am brand new here and this site seems really informative.

Okay basically i am 20 and never had a relationship...(this site can only be good for me...right?)

I am really into this one girl who i have known for years but she is only staying in my city for the next week (btw, she's beautiful). I went out with my friends and some guy was hitting on her (ofc). she then asked me to 'pretend' to be her boyfriend. I did so for the whole night and we held hands, hugged etc. I then walked her home and we kept eachother warm. she then said things like "my legs are cold and need warming up"

It came to the point where we split up to go our seperate ways and i just left without making a move because i am a big pussy, i did give her my number though.

Now am i right in saying girls are generally fickle and may like you one moment but hate you the next? I really like her, not just because she is stunning and funny but we actually talked a lot about meaningful things so i kind of want to pursue this, even if it is only for a week.


The day after, i sent her a message online saying how i enjoyed talking to her and if she ever needed a pretend bf again she should let me know. she then replied, saying "thanks for putting up with my drunkeness, your'e now the first guy i'll call if i need a pretend bf". I then sent her a message with some BS which i kinda wish i didn't, saying oh i'll see youu next week blah blah (got no response)

So now i want to know what i should do now? i feel like i've missed my chance and that she is blaming our brief moment of 'intimacy' on us being drunk. I also think her friend maybe interested in me and also the girl i like has been with a couple of my friends which makes this a little more complicated. she also had/s love interests at uni

and i did not mean for this post to be so long but any help or info would be great

stop being a pussy and move on

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You probably blew but definitely don't call till like a day before she leaves and try to hook something up with a lot of friends other girls there etc...In the mean time work on her friend and get the friend interested then the girl you like will start liking you again...But more than likely u missed ur opportunity that night gotta strike while the irons hott

she started a convo online with me today...can't be a bad thing. i'm seeing her later this week so you never know.