Hey guys I am new to PUA and had a few questions. So I never really have any trouble with women, but recently at work I ran into this girl who is gorgeous. During our interaction she constantly made eye contact and smiled. Im not sure if I should take this as an IOI. I didnt look for anything else. I thought I had this in the bag like always. At the end of our conversation she said hope to see you again. So to reassure I would I do Mr. Creeper and add her on facebook. I send her one message which she dosnt reply to. Then I send her another which she gives a short reply ( yeah everything is going great with the mac its awesome! thanks). I sold her an apple computer. So here is my question. What should I do if I want to get with this girl. She is very pretty and seemed intelligent. I know if we wouldnt have been at work I would have closed the deal, but since I have been trying to up my game and even nail the ones at my place of work I need a little help.

Anyone?

Buddy by sending two messages i think you would come across quite creepy nevermind finding and adding her on facebook It would have been better, at the time you sold her the computer, to have been like well lets do something about that, here is my number(Facebook name) or whatever and just seen how she reacted. I wouldnt email her again as it will seem realy clingi. I figure its a waiting game now. If you wait more than a week for her next reply bin her and move on.

Regards Saint

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hello mate
saint it right..that was a pretty afc move...its ok it is not the hardest thing to fix

i myself..sadly did the same thing. met a girl and got her name, talked for a little bit and i ended up being stupid and not having the stones to ask for her number facebook found her. did the same message thing...it didnt work at first but slowly it did..ok here is my advice, based on what i did

now i sent a message pretty similar, just a typical hey convo starter..not too good. now, what you should do is send one more, this time i suggest to just go direct..it is a little ballsy but hey it most likely will work. i did something along the lines of

"hey it was great meeting you the other day i enjoyed talkin you are really laid back concidering i had just met you! im gonna be completly honest i really wanted to ask you to go out for a bit to eat and just get to know you more but i was in a little bit of a rush and work was on my mind and i missed a great chance to hang out with a cool girl. (well so far you seem cool but hey i might be wrong ) i really hate facebook chats but i just wanted to contact you for the sake of meeting up again and figured you might not be strolling in when im working. it would be great to go out for a coffee this weekend. i normally dont trust random girls with my number but...you did make my shitty work day a bit better so il trust you for now 555-3849..."

this is just very fast off the top of my head what i would do. now, i gave compliments to show that im not weird. making the convo good with smily faces and exlamation points although sounds gay make it less weird, like you are KINDA expressing some emotion. also, saying that you are honest is also good, cause this will make her flattered that you are being bold, but also show her you arnt creepy, what creeper stats an honest thought to a girl? WITHOUT it being rude and sexual? you get the point. another good thing is to say you dont like facebook chattin. it shows you have a life besides the internet, and that you arnt gonna keep messaging her all the time. the funy little trust and the number is something i add alot when i meet girls, its just a fun way to give or recieve a number.

now dont do this word for word, but the basics i described should be put in there. you want to come across as a real person who just thought she made your day and is worth hangin out with later to talk

some guys might not like this, but i did almost this EXACT type of message and it works just fine, after this though just dont send her any more shit, she will call or leave her number, then dont do any more weird shitt

mR.e

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So I sent a msg before you guys replied and I will post it word for word. She is at a competition so Im assuming hasnt had time to get on, but she did make an update a little bit ago and didnt respond to it... So what do I do? I always get who I want, this one I was just sloppy with from the get go, and I want it twice as much now.


Great I'm glad to hear that the mac is good. I was worried cause you seem pretty busy, and to start a new platform can be frustrating. I'm sure with your course load and being on a psu sports team can be hectic and stressful. So I never use facebook for this, and Im sure you get this all the time... But we should go do somthing fun somtime. Coffee, movie whatever, my treat. I'm 100% sure you'll be able to relax abd have a good time. If your into partying my roommates throw some nice parties everynow and then too. Up to you, but get back to me and let me know kiddo.

Thats what i sent. What to do next?

that isnt too bad i would say just wait, i mean if it doesnt happen it doesnt happen. there aint a point to just lose hope or anything but remember, girls can sense that your chasing them so just play it off cool.

you never know she might walk back in the store too. game on for now bro until she gets back to you

mR.e

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