College girls, seems like it's a rule around here that they can't be trusted too much, which is justifiable. As a junior, I've had a lot of fun going out, mingling, seeing what you can get to happen and I've definitely learned a lot if a few years. Getting at my point, I've found a girl that I've thought has been worth pursuing. Being in college, people understandably enjoy testing the waters, but I feel like when you find a girl you actually are interested in, college life just complicates matters much more.

I will limit my rambling, but this girl and I have been hooking up on and off for more than a year. At the end of last spring, we had a define the relationship type talk after I asked her out to dinner. Unfortunately it was all through text, but she discussed how she was having similar feelings I was, but wasn't sure if she was ready to go into the summer being distanced seeing as we had met half way through second semester.

This year has been off and on, much more game being played than I would have hoped for. We have both had fun playing hard to get for each other, but when it's obvious that people both have a certain interest for each other it gets ridiculous. We have both hooked up with other people over the past year, but from the texts we have been sending lately its pretty clear that we both have similar feelings. Then again, I'm in the exact same position I was last year. Her friends suggested that she wants to pursue it, but from the times I've hung out with her in the past week, it's hard to tell whether she wants to play drunk and flirty or lets establish something.. We went out to lunch this past week and it went well but now that I'm on break for a few days I'm trying to sort out how I could make this work, even though I can only do so much.

It's pretty clear to me that with 6 weeks left in school, some form of conversation is going to happen at some point. I know what I would say, but am not sure what she's going to be going for.

so.. play it casual and see if she keeps wanting to hang out, or bring up the "define the relationship" type of talk painfully, but justifiably.