there is a girl at work that is leaving, i want to set up a meet outside work or be rejected any tips?

meet up or get rejected?


ASK HER OUT.


come on man....

your right jav,

she has a boyfriend but if shes talking to me he must be boring right!

she gave me her number

we set up one meet but i got there late

second time we didnt see each other

i was thinking of saying

"lets go to the cinema"

and writing it on a note for her to read

Two golden rules that are in fact contradicting each other:

1. Dont shit where you eat.
2. Stop analyzing and take action.

Dont ASK her out! You are going somewhere, you invite her along, if she comes that is good if she doesnt, her loss. That is the mindset you should have!

I dont remember who said it but it was good. If you are gaming a girl you gotta be better than every other guy in the world, if you are gaming a girl with a boyfriend, you only have to be better than her boyfriend.

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I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.

bbardot: you just reminded me about porn

I'm gonna give you another one. Do something that challenges them. What I used to do is start asking them written questions. So you are seated... you turn around and look at her as if you were just about to ask her something... and just pause.... like you are pondering something.... then turn around and write down:

"Dogs or Cats?"

If she is witty at all, she will just like the slight challenge and answer. If she is stupid and confused, write down again:

what's better? dogs or cats?

She answers:

"Cats"

Look at it, shake your head "no" in a disapproving manner... you will give her another chance...

Let a bit of time pass... Take out your pen:

CTM: Ice cream or chocolate?

HB: chocolate!!!

Shake your head "yes" with approval... let time pass... write more:

CTM: "Hot dogs or Hamburgers?"

HB: "Big Macs!"

You can escalate:

"lace or leather?"

You can change it up... be funny:

This whole time you are building a connection with her. Other things:

Draw a tic-tac-toe square... put an X dead center. Underneath it write "I'm gonna kick your ass"... fold it, put it on her desk.

She will draw you an "O". At the end make sure you cheat to win.

Give her a psychological test:

"draw me a pattern. Use one circle, 2 sqauares, three triangles"

After you walk with her... hold the paper:

: "Circle represents you. Squares represent your view on society's rules. Triangles represent school challenges. See how you drew a big circle in the middle? it means you have a big ass ego"...

HB: Hahahaha
: shit I have to fly
HB: What? what about the rest?
: Did I mention the large squares mean you have no patience?...

walk away. over your shoulder:



Or you take that same paper, write down your number and hand it to her. You say "Text me, don't call me. I don't want my other girlfriends getting suspicious". Smile, look into her eyes, give her a quick hug and walk off.

Option 3... just smile, walk away, and let it all soak in. Its not like you won't see her next time.

You see how this works? You are challenging her, you are being fun. You are making her comply and jump through your hoops. You are building a bond. Next time you show up you flick your finger on her head...

Something else to consider, get another girl that is hot to meet you with some excuse... then laugh with her in front of your target. Introduce the two girls to each other if possible. This is one of my favorite moments... "Kelly this is Jessica... Jessica, this is Kelly"

Be in charge and make her want you.

"why are the good things in life always bad?"

her blah blah

"why am i asking you you have no idea what being bad really is!"

these worked really well for me