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PostPosted: Thu Mar 25, 2010 5:01 am 
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Ok this may sound like dumb question but recently I have been having this thing where I don't know what to do when i see an attractive girl or really most girls walking in my direction. Like walking on the sidewalk and passing each other kind of thing. I don't know where to look. I don't know what is with me but I get struck every time with this sudden anxiety and just don't know where to look so i bring out my phone or pretend i'm looking at something across the street. So where should i look? Should i give eye contact for a second if i think she is attractive or not to not seem like a weirdo checking my phone every time and what not?


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Ok this may sound like dumb question but recently I have been having this thing where I don't know what to do when i see an attractive girl or really most girls walking in my direction. Like walking on the sidewalk and passing each other kind of thing. I don't know where to look. I don't know what is with me but I get struck every time with this sudden anxiety and just don't know where to look so i bring out my phone or pretend i'm looking at something across the street. So where should i look? Should i give eye contact for a second if i think she is attractive or not to not seem like a weirdo checking my phone every time and what not?
Eye contact, smile and say Hi


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PostPosted: Thu Mar 25, 2010 6:10 am 
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Ok this may sound like dumb question but recently I have been having this thing where I don't know what to do when i see an attractive girl or really most girls walking in my direction. Like walking on the sidewalk and passing each other kind of thing. I don't know where to look. I don't know what is with me but I get struck every time with this sudden anxiety and just don't know where to look so i bring out my phone or pretend i'm looking at something across the street. So where should i look? Should i give eye contact for a second if i think she is attractive or not to not seem like a weirdo checking my phone every time and what not?
Eye contact, smile and say Hi
I dont want to start a conversation with them its just when walking by girls. I know it sounds like retarded question because I even cant believe im asking it. The problem i have is every time i seem to walk by an attractive girl of any kind I dont know what to do with my eyes when. Should I look straight or what if I dont want to start up a convo.


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PostPosted: Thu Mar 25, 2010 6:42 am 
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TheLastWolf gave you good advice Dave, you don't have to start a convo, just keep walking past them while looking and saying hi.


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PostPosted: Thu Mar 25, 2010 7:00 pm 
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either do that ^^^, which doesn't hurt. I fucking promise.

or yesterday I read in this book all about body language and such that states if you lock eyes with someone to open your eyes wide and it signal that you acknowledge them. its pretty dope

also, If you can't even look HBs in the eyes, I would recommend the newbie mission man.


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PostPosted: Thu Mar 25, 2010 7:13 pm 
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I dont want to start a conversation with them...
You don't want to start a conversation with them? Then why the hell should you care where you look?

Does this 'not wanting to have a conversation with them' attitude helped you meet women so far in your life?

Now if you DO want to meet them then I would do with them exactly like every other person you cross, just smile and do whaever until you get somewhat close. Then when 10-15 feet make eye contact. Hold it, say 'Hi' or 'insert direct opener' or 'insert indirect opener'.

quick tip, don't walk -> look -> then smile. That will label you creep/stalker/whatever. You want to smile and have a good body language always. Then get eye contacts and get your lips moving.

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Ok this may sound like dumb question but recently I have been having this thing where I don't know what to do when i see an attractive girl or really most girls walking in my direction. Like walking on the sidewalk and passing each other kind of thing. I don't know where to look. I don't know what is with me but I get struck every time with this sudden anxiety and just don't know where to look so i bring out my phone or pretend i'm looking at something across the street. So where should i look? Should i give eye contact for a second if i think she is attractive or not to not seem like a weirdo checking my phone every time and what not?
Eye contact, smile and say Hi
I dont want to start a conversation with them its just when walking by girls. I know it sounds like retarded question because I even cant believe im asking it. The problem i have is every time i seem to walk by an attractive girl of any kind I dont know what to do with my eyes when. Should I look straight or what if I dont want to start up a convo.
If you don't want to meet them then it doesn't fucking matter what you do.

If you do, thelastwolf gave you some good advice.


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Yea mate last wolf is bang on. Smile, say high, even a smile and a wink but keep acting like your going to continue walking. If you dont want to talk to them i dunno why you would ask aspiring PUA's what to do?

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thanks all who responded. Got my shit together finally


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