Before you hate me for boyfriend destroying, understand that this guy sucks in every way possible and that she's incredibly unhappy in their relationship as he turns to drugs as opposed to her. Not only am I a better option, I have my shit straight and dislike the situation that he's put her in a lot.

With that said...

How do I avoid the LJBF zone?

While running my BF destroyer, we've gone through me pumping him up and her tearing him down then on the natural path toward the "ideal" man in sharp contrast to what her boyfriend isn't.

The question im getting from her is, word for word...

ME: Someone who is prepared for it. He cares for you and is a NICE guy and all, but at the same time he's not equipped for that kind of mature relationship and feels that insecurity and fear...

HER:So who do you suggest?

She also asks questions like "How do I know who's the right one" and what not. I feel as if i've done a fairly good job of indirectly DHV'ng myself and showing that I have all these qualities she's looking for without telling her or asking her what she's looking for in contrast to her bf, but i'm not sure how aggressive to be, really. She has yet to break up with him.

Sticking point right here. Because she didn't directly come on to me, (UNLESS IM MISSING SOMETHING HERE?), I didn't false disqualify myself at that point.

Is that what I should do? Which False DQ would be ideal here?