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Should I make first contact?
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PostPosted: Sun Mar 21, 2010 8:48 pm 
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Hello everyone,

I't been a while since my last post. I've been busy with life. Not too busy to sarge from time to time though.

So here's a question:

Background: I landed the number of an HB 9.5 (she is a model) and I went out on a date with her last night. We walked around NYC and attended a comedy show. The date lasted from 10pm to about 6 am; we had a great time. Unfortunately we doubled (she brought a date for my bro) so I couldn't find an opening to close physcally.

At the beginning of the night she didn't seem as into me. I had to game her a while before I started getting any IOI's. I made a bunch of AFC mistakes (I'm no master) but generally won her over about half an hour into the date. So finally at the end of the night we part and I said "I'll text you." In hind sight I realize I should have said "Text me." Again, I'm no master.

So the question is: Should I make first contact or should I wait on her? Also, is there a specific amount of time I should wait?

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PostPosted: Sun Mar 21, 2010 9:20 pm 
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You dont need a master for this. Just text her tomorrow!

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i agree besides alot of girls have this mindset that they shouldnt talk to you before you talk to her (some sort of male dominance thing i spose) but yea i definately think you should txt or even call, she wont expect that.


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I'm against txting in this case, you need to read her voice tone and get an idea of how she's reacting to you after that night. Texting is a very bland way of communicating, call her and communicate with her via phone. But to answer your question, you gave her your word that you'll contact her, so do it. I wouldn't wait on her to do so as most women wont make the first contact attempt anyway.


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dont rely on us. make ur own choice. make mistakes and learn from them. thats how u get better.


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I want to thank those who got back to me. I appreciate the advice.

Update: She ended up calling me Sunday evening and we have another date set up for next week. :D

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