You came off looking like a dick, but I guess that was your goal
I don't know, not my style. I'd never call a girl a bitch twice in a row while texting
This girl may be an exception, but as a general rule, ease up on the negging.
With texting, you have to tone it down since she can't see your facial expressions.
Smilies can help with that, but only
mirror her use of emoticons (some girls use :P more than :), some use =) instead, some use :-), and some don't use it at all. ) The same goes for use of punctuation and “haha” or "lol". If she never “x”s you only “x” when she’s been good. Choose a word she uses in her text and use it back, pick up on subtle writing styles.
Avoid using "so"
Quote:
Me: So what kind place do you work where women are driving into buildings?
Me: So where you want the bite?
In my texts, I tease without insult, I humour with wit, irony, double entandre, or misinterpretation. Lead the conversation, but make it short and sweet. Don't be afraid to cut the conversation short, and say you'll text/call her later in the evening.
Notice how she answers her texts, is it long and elaborate, keep at it. If it seems like the texts are not hitting the right spot with her, there are long time lapses or short answers, move swiftly over to phone before a negative “no” ladder is built up.
Using “we” is very powerful. Whenever we can, it’s good to use “we” instead of “you and I”. It establishes a connection in a very powerful and subtle way. “when can we get together?” says something very different to “when are you free?” it assumes that we both are participating in mutual process of “getting together”. She’s not being “asked out”.
If she didn't reply to something, wait a day or whatever and use my favorite text line: "Those beautiful eyes. Those sexy lips. The smoothest walk.......But enough about me, how are you doing?"
CHAT
