What are girls like when they just get out of a relationship?

My girlfriend broke up with me, I got LJBF'd.

This is how it went:
- Month of arguing a lot. (she wanted me to care more)
- She went on a weekend-trip in that month with a bunch of other guys, without letting hear something from her.
- I got mad, told her I wanted to break up.
- Next day she said she wanted to break up as well
- Day after we had "a break"
- That same night, she wanted me back. I was partying.
- The next day there was a party, I behaved very AFC. I wanted her back she was ignoring me.
- That night it was like there was a wall around her, at the end of the night the wall kind of broke down and she wanted to be with me again.
- That next day she called me crying she had missed me and wanted things to be back how they were, I was willing to take her back without a doubt! I was very easy, I was laughing everything off and told her everything was gonna be okay. (this call was on a Sunday) We arranged a date for the next Wednesday. It was the soonest we could see each other again.

- Then I didn't hear anything from her AGAIN. My gut said something was wrong again. I called her Tuesday night, she was going out with her sluttish female friends. While I called her she tried to cut me off. She was like: ok ok, ok i gotta go bye.

- The next morning I called her again, to set the time we were supposed to have a date. She went like: "Do you wanna know if I made up my mind yet?" (she was talking about if she wanted me back or not Like there was still a break. I thought we were going to get back together.)
I was like "yeah, of course. Tell me"
She went like: "I'll talk about it when we meet" (like she was in control.)

Then I went to her house, and I got LJBF'd.

Some quotes from her when she broke up:
"She was not in love with me anymore"
"She did not want to be in a relationship, at least not with me"

Now, I want her back but I am really afraid she might have slept with someone else.

What are girls like when they have just LJBF'd their boyfriend for almost 3 years?

How long does it take for them to have sex with someone else?
What is she probably doing right now?

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Failure was never an option


Because girls don't like sex.. Yeah RIGHT!
Why else do you think girls have P*ssies

best thing is to let her go, at least for a while, being needy won't help, tell her you understand (even if you don't, and youre going crazy in youre head) and let her be... and you move on, at least for a while

if she'll see youre not needy she might come back, keep in contact be a friend (but not a "FRIEND ZONE" friend)

and bad news, usually it takes girls less time to start having sex after a break up then guys, but it changes...

good luck, hope it will work well, remember, be understanding and mature

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"StreetLight!! Stop seeing every problem in life like it's a chick you didn't hit on!"

Thank you Streetlight.

I kinda broke down just yet.

She also went out with her slutty friends as I said the saturday after we broke up. Immediately after she broke up with me on wednesday I broke all contact.
I suspect she has had sex the Saturday night she went out with her slutty friends. I broke down when I thought of it.
It all makes sense.

help me how to deal with this. I really can not stand the thought of her being someone's slut. Which I strongly feel she has been.
What do I do?

I wanna move on but I can't I just can't.

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Failure was never an option


Because girls don't like sex.. Yeah RIGHT!
Why else do you think girls have P*ssies

just move on.. go approach other girls, be social do all the things you couldnt do without her!!!!

it will take time to recover but it's perfectly natural, be a man, go live youre life

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"StreetLight!! Stop seeing every problem in life like it's a chick you didn't hit on!"