Hey guys,

I know most people on this forum are guys but i just joined and im a girl. I have a particular question about a guy i met at my college orientation. He struck up a convo with me and we talked about college stuff/life for a while but then we had to part ways due to being in different groups. At orientation we had a dance and he asked me to dance and i accepted. After dancing for a while i got really hot and just wanted to get out of there and i think he thought i was rejecting him but i wasnt.

Anyways, i caught him looking at me a few times so im pretty sure he's interested. The next day I didnt get a chance to talk to him. I added him on facebook but i noticed his relationship status says "in a relationship" so im not sure whats going on. Should i fb chat him and ask about his schedule because we are the same major? Is he actually interested or am i just seeing what i want to see?

thanks

just my opinion, but i feel like you're looking too much into his actions, and barely had any of your own actions to prove his interest. Did you do anything that you wouldn't do with just a really friendly stranger? I mean you guys just talked and dance for a little bit and then you left right? Doesn't seem like anything special to me...

i can see what you mean. we held hands for a little so i wouldnt do that with just anyone haha.

Doesn't matter. Go for it. If you like him, no point in hiding it. If he doesn't like you, then at least you know, and feel good about it because you took a shot. You miss 100% of the shots you don't take. If he does like you, well then horray! You honestly have nothing to lose.
Don't worry about the relationship thing. Even if he is still "together" with his gf (from high school I'm guessing), they'll be broken up by thanksgiving of this year. It happens all the time. All my friends with gf's from hs have broken up in a couple weeks of school. It just doesn't make sense to stay together.

Also, just out of curiosity. I find it interesting to see women on this thread. How did you find out about PUA and why, of all places, did you come here for advice?

I agree with Khrem. Just go for it. From you have posted, it sounds more like he is interested instead of not interested. But it is hard to tell. I feel like since you guys are both going off to college(i'm assuming you are both freshman) then it will be easier to get to know him and gain his interest since you are a new girl at a new school.

And yea, I wanna know why you chose this site out of every site out there haha. It's always weird seeing girls here. You guys are the reason why the guys are here!!

Thanks for the advice! and to answer you and the other poster, I came here because i specifically wanted a guy's honest opinion. All the other sites are mostly girls and of course they would all tell me to go for it, so i just wanted to see what you guys would say.

I heard about pua from my best guy friend who has read the game.

also, he never seems to be on fb chat so should i just message him something random like what his schedule is? i dont want to come off as weird considering orientation was last week and so much time has passed

Just ask him to hang out. Whatever you wanna do, dinner, lunch, coffee, a party. Seriously, our lives as men would all be so much easier if girls were willing to just be straightforward.