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PostPosted: Fri Mar 19, 2010 4:36 pm 
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When I approach a girl, 80 % of the time she speaks a different language to me (not English). I prefer to speak English but understand both languages.

Sometimes she'll speak her language and I'll speak mine since we both understand each other, but I feel like this affects the quality of the connection we have.

These girls also have a certain perception of English guys that seems to instantly lower my value.

I feel like this is a major sticking point for me at the moment! Would it maybe help to speak her language, to the detriment of my game?
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PostPosted: Fri Mar 19, 2010 7:18 pm 
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No it would help your game to speak the language you feel comfortable in and not change unless she asks you to because she feels better.

Keep your frame, you only lose value if you let such a thing affect your game. She may say, oh most english guys are like this and that but you are different.

BTW, if she says that she is probably not worth speaking to anyway.

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. She may say, oh most english guys are like this and that but you are different.

BTW, if she says that she is probably not worth speaking to anyway.
If she says I'm different than most, wouldn't that be considered a good thing?
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That is an exceptionally good thing.

HB: You are not like the others.
Ezo: No, I know, you have never met and will never again meet anyone like me.

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Another thing I'm wondering...

A lot of times when I approach and speak English, the girl will say in a semi-condescending tone, "Oh, are you English?". My reply would normally be a c/f, "Yeah, but you're lucky since English guys are awesome!".

Am I handling this correctly, or can I improve on some aspects? I seem to run in to a lot of problems because of the whole language thing.
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Yes I am thank you for noticing.

Anyways why would you wanna talk to that kind of xenophobic racist girls?

Deal with the ones that are normal instead, saves you a lot of trouble in the end. If you cannot respect them there is nothing to gain from it.

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Yes I am thank you for noticing.

Anyways why would you wanna talk to that kind of xenophobic racist girls?

Deal with the ones that are normal instead, saves you a lot of trouble in the end. If you cannot respect them there is nothing to gain from it.
Most of the attractive girls are like this. I wouldn't go as far as saying they are xenophobic or racist. It seems more like some form of a shit test. They are slightly closed off to begin with, but once I get to know them their attitudes seem to change and they become more receptive.

I seem to recall you mentioning in a previous thread that you also live in an area where most girls are non-English... Have you haver had any difficulties because of this?
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I never have problems like that. I am foreign to this country and I look different. But if they treat me differenty it is because they think "Hey, I thought all of those guys were bad but this ones different!"

So it has more to do with how YOU are than how your group is seen.

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