Hey guys.
So my friend came running up to me today and told me he told this chick to add me on mxit (its like instant messaging on your cell phone ). He said this girl would be perfect for me and i have only seen 1 pic of her and i rate her a 8. The only problem is i don't know what to say to her because i have never tried to game over mxit. What would a good opener be? Where do i go from there?
Thanks Sn0w.

P.S. if this doesn't make sense just let me know,

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you in SA dude?

I'd open with something along these lines... "word has it that your into sex on the beach..."

wait...

hold it...

"I prefer beer though"

haha, no seriously. I for one dont like mxit because i find it to be full of dodge people with hardcore macho fake persona's, but thats mho. Try not to go OTT with ur convo, keep it simple, though in some humour and keep it you.

By keeping it YOU, should she pop a whitty comment or call u out on something etc, your response will be instant and natural as opposed to those jocks who try to come up with the ultimate response. imo these tools are easy to spot.

The faster you can get this bird off mxit & meet up in real life the better

double post

Personally I don't like using mxit to game girls.

You end up talking to them so much that you could really risk ending up as LJBF.

As DV-Inspired said, try to limit the amount of time on mxit and game her in real life.

Ya i agree with both of you. The only reason i was using it is because thats the only way i could speak to her. Mxit sucks its not like the real thing. Ya im in South Africa.
I will post the convo we had last night later when i get home from school.

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Ok so this is the conversation we had last night. I no i screwed up some where. Please can you tell me what i did wrong and how i could fix it. Thanx.
And remember i ran out of stuff to say to i just said random stuff.
I dont think that i will try go for her because it just doesn't feel right gaming over mxit. If i do ever see her in real life i will go for it.



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I think it's really hard to say based on this, which is precisely why I don't like text game.

Texting should at best be used as a time bridge in between meetings.

**(Nice to see some more people from SA getting involved in PU. Good Luck!)

I think this is easier to read:
Me: Hey
Tenzing Norgay: Ow Hi
Me: How you
Tenzing Norgay: Im great and you
Me: im good thanks.
Me: So How do you know ryan
Tenzing Norgay: Ex is my good friend
Tenzing Norgay: and you?
Me: He in my school, we quite good friends.
Tenzing Norgay: Awww Cute
Me: lol but not when I play Paintball against him. Then its just fun to paint him 
Tenzing Norgay: Paintball? I love Paintball
Tenzing Norgay: I played on saturaday.
Me: Cool did you play at area 51?
Tenzing Norgay: YA how did you know
Me: My team plays there lots
Me: Do you know tac?
Tenzing Norgay: ummm na
Me: How old are you?
Tenzing Norgay: I 16 and u
Me: im 15
Tenzing Norgay: Haha im older than you
Me: lol What school do you go to?
Tenzing Norgay: False Bay
Me: No way, my ex went there
Tenzing Norgay: Oh my
Me: Can I get your advise on something?
Tenzing Norgay: um ok?
Me: Would you date a guy who is still best friends with his ex?
Tenzing Norgay: NO
Me: Ok the reason im asking is because my friend (who is a chick) is dating this guy who is still keeps a box of pictures and letters from his ex. And they still speak to each other on the phone every day.
Tenzing Norgay: So are you going to date your friend?
Me: No I just want to know if I should tell her to dump him or not.
Tenzing Norgay: Oh I think she should dump him
Me: the craziest thing happened to me today. So I was standing in a line at the coffee shop and I see this guy staring at me. So a few seconds later he walks over to me and starts trying to flirt with me. So any ways im about to leave and he keeps staring at me while I drive away. It was so embarrassing.
Tenzing Norgay: Hahaha why didn’t you leave your number?
Me: lol your funny.
Tenzing Norgay: My crush watched this really embarrassing video of me on my friends phone.
Me: lol shame. Your profile pic is pretty sick
Tenzing Norgay: No its not! Its embarrassing. I was doing that generation X thing from wrestiling.
Thanks any ways.
*Tenzing Norgay 8o is now offline*

So as you can see it didnt go so well

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