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ok this is to do with tying up a loose end
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this is one of the rare instances where i and a FRIEND!!! became attracted to each other
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attraction stage --- complete
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seduction--- complete
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back story last year of british high school am 16 and finish in in around 3 months...one of my FRIENDS and I became attracted to each other...she started texting me and we were flirting for a few days in the week kinky stuff etc i hadnt spoke to or seen her in around 3 months

BUT then when i started coming on to her again she said that if she F***** me because im a virgin shed feel like she was robbing me of something, hence the reason she doesnt fuck them...

F*** it i know this is one-itus. But such a small detail is preventing me from getting with this lass, going to speak to her again tomorrow...so I need answers by then please guys...I would realllllllllllllly appreciate your help here guys...and if this works out i will not be able to thank you enough

please dont give me the usual stuff about F zone and such because i can assure u im n ot stuck there

I don't think I know what to do for you here but why the fuck did you tell her your a virgin?

My first still has no idea she was my first.


Anyways, If I had to read it though, I'd say that's her way of saying your not experienced enough for her tastes

OR

That she's not interested enough in you to get that deep with you and if she could have though of it as casual sex it would have been no problem.

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Don't think you are, know you are.

I didnt tell her anything, she just knew because ive gone to the same highschool for last 5 years

Are you religious? Do you wear a purity ring? One of my friends is and gets a lot of shit for it, but if you dont follow any of that, your virginity means absolutely nothing, as a matter of fact, shes robbing you of a great experience you two should be having.

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I'd rather go out swinging than strike out looking.
A lifestyle is a terrible thing to waste.
What I say when I see her is what I'll say.

Escalate escalate escalate. Physically. If she starts talking about you being a virgin agree and exaggerate.

I was so intrigued by this post,

Cant you just lie n say uve done other stuff with girls (shows abit of experience n that you know what your doing).

erm this might not work but id have playful convos with her about how she probably cant handle you anyway so its probably for the best you dont sleep together.

Just act like you have done some things and you have ALOT of knowledge in how to please a girl in bed.


This is a horrrible situation your in!

good luck bud

I Dont Know why butttttttttttttttttt she texted me saying she regretted passing up the offer...

needless to say i set the date up for next week

and I freaking LOVE THE PUA COMMUNITY

KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK GUYS YOUR ALL AWESOME

Maybe her saying she feels she's robbing you initially was a sort of shit test to see your reaction and you passed, someone with more knowledge will no doubt concur or refute this opinion.

Anyway glad things have turned around for you mate. All the best with this lass! Seems to be going smooth so far.