Could really do with some help today. I have a girlfriend, only for a few weeks, and its starting to fuck up I think. She ignores me and it seems like shes testing me sometimes, and I'm failing. If we weren't in a relationship I'd be able to because I'd have other girls to fall back on and make her a little jealous maybe. I've tried calling her out on it but I think if I carry on it will just fuck up, just seems to make her worse. Is there any way I can get her to invest more? Or should I next her?

I tried ignoring/ not calling or texting, calling her out on bad behaviour whic always seems to make her worse, and like a twat I threatened to leave her. None worked. It's frustrating me, like shes even ignoring me now on msn. I don't know how to get her to invest, I'm stuck.

I'll start out by saying this relationship is so new that if it's really as bad as you make it seem, I would personally drop it and move on. However, that's just how I work.

Since I don't know the history of this relationship nor do I know the events that brought you to where you are right now I can only offer a small amount of advice.


Dealing with relationships is different from picking up girls. The normal stuff isn't usually what your supposed to do. At least not all the time.

Unfortunately, relationships are not my expertise. So with the info you've given us this is all I can do for you. I hope it helps.

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Thanks mate.

Yeah I think I am gonna drop it actually. I can't be arsed. She is really hot, but she's not that interesting, and its getting boring trying to make it work. I'm supposed to be meeting her tomorrow but I just can't be arsed, I have plenty of other options.

If it were me i'd drop it.
several more girls out there who are interesting with good looks.
if a girl thinks she's to good and ignores me i'd would move on.
who knows maybe she'll come back if she realizes that she's not as important to you as she thought she was?

Fucked her off