Hey Guys,

I have noticed the strangest thing about my game in the last couple of weaks and was wondering if any of you are experiencing the same thing.

It's strange to me how some nights I can go sarging and I can open any group and get into any set. Other nights I cannot get myself to open at all. I stand there and I know that I have broken the 3 second rule but I just cannot, for the love of me, build up enough courage to open. I have been doing this for so long now and I am brialliant at opening, building attraction and closing; my sticking point is later in the game. (Getting too many flakes, due to buyers remorse, and when it comes to relationships, I suck. I am not a monogamous person any longer and cannot deal with their isses). But guys, some nights I just suck at this.

Is this due to some internal state? What causes this? And how have you guys gotten past this all?

I can mention that I usually do not drink when sarging, I have had it happen in the past where I pickup stunning girls, #close and cannot remember what I did with the number in the moring or she would text me a week later and I cant remember who she is or what she looked like.

Guys, I do need to know how to completely kill the AFc that is stopping me from approaching on some nights...

Thanks

Hi NaturalPUA,


First of all, remember that your mental state is very important.

When you go out, take 5 minutes to meditate, get ready, feel your best and get ready to go out. If you need motivation, watch a video or something (this one works lol)



Also, open easy sets (HB 6 or lower) to gain confidence and social proof.


If you experience some AA read this:

http://pualife.webs.com/innergame.htm

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You don't need courage. Courage you need to save someone from a fire...

You are over-thinking. On top of that, your over-thinking the wrong things. As the poster above said, open on some hb5-6. Take the time to focus your attention on everything BUT failure/how well you are doing. Make them laugh and pay attention to you.

Have fun. If you are not having fun and your thinking about technical details of PUA, nothing can save you but a hooker. When you go out and start feeling like that, check yourself. Its about having fun and interacting with others. If you do NOTHING but this, women will literally come to you ( don't bank on this though; Its up to the male of our species to acquire women.)

To express how I feel when I go out... I feel like I am at my own house. I have walked behind the bar to get my own drinks. I have fucked women in the stock room. Its my house bitch, live with it.

Byron