Hey,

Met a girl a while a go. She is in my class.. Showed a big load of IOI the list is big enough.

The only problem was she has a BF.. BF destroyer doesn't work because she never talks about her BF when we talk to each other..

So I once talked about a place where you could drink some nice tea.. Now she asked me when Ill be there so we could have some tea while her BF (who plays soccer in that village there) is playing soccer.. This is a big IOI to go for it right?

Thanks

if she is not talking about her BF it can mean one of two things:
1. She is interested in you
2. She is NOT interested at all and you are not posing any sexual "treat" to her and you are deep in LJBF

you didn't gave enough info, but youre the judge

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totally an IOI. take this girl out, make sure shes having fun. dont stay for tea for too long, nobody enjoys great conversation these days. Everytime im dealing with girls with boyfriends she has to be having more fun than she is with her boyfriend. you should be able to take her down within 2 dates.

good luck!

I barely really get to know her because the conversations we have are totally like bull shit.. It goes about nothing.. We don't talk much but she seems to keep being interested in me..

@YoungWolf: Yeah it was just 1 thing I knew about that place and that is where she wants to hook up with me.. I was not planning on doing tea to long either.. I need to ask her out this time because we didn't planned anything.. I know there is a nice forest there too walk a little and talk and K-close private there but I can't really say 100% if she's into that already.. I do kino on her but she doesn't do much kino back on me.. It doesnt disturb her that I do kino on her..

Once I pushed her in a teasing way.. A couple of classmates and I were waiting at the station.. She pushed me back pretty hard and it didn't hurt but she thought it did haha She laid her arm down on my arm for a couple of seconds..

She doesn't have to always be talking about her BF to run boyfriend destroyer. In fact part of the pattern includes you distracting her from the bad things in their relationship so that she will see you as a potential replacement for him.

I think it's actually better that she's not talking to you a lot about him. If you become the advice guy you are headed straight toward LJBF zone. If she starts to talk about him, let her talk for a few moments, offer maybe one insightful thing about relationships and then do something to distract her, like "Enough about all that, let's talk about something/go do something fun."

The main component of this is you need to be running game on her still, without breaking any of the rules of a relationship until the moment of a mutually desired kiss or some reaction from her that is overtly breaking the boundaries of the relationship of her and her bf. You have to be careful, but you cannot take someone from their bf without creating very strong attraction.

Be the man that she wants, that is all the things her boyfriend isn't.

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I preface this with... I don't recommend ever taking a girl from another guy unless you really HATE the guy, or unless you are seriously IN LOVE with the girl.

But no judgements.

She is seeming to give you IOI's If you DO want to progress this, figure out a way to make the tea thing work. Like young wolf said don't stay too long, leave her wanting more...

And more importantly, be WAAAAYYY more fun to be around than her boyfriend..

Listen up on your favorite comedians, read up on David De'Angelo's Cocky Comedy, Do whatever you need to do to be super polished and keep her laughing, and touching your arm, and all of that good stuff.

This is just a suggestion, but try NOT k-closing, and have a DHV reason to leave, something unexpected (after you get a text) or something.. Keep her wanting more. make her pinky promise that this** is To Be Continued.

Then next time YOU pick the location. (more isolated) and calibrate, and go for the K-close, maybe more..


Thats probably how I'd play it.

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So Cocky funny huh? Ill figure that out.. I know I have humor so It won't be a problem but since I have David his lecture It won't hurt reading it.

So the a-little-longer 'date' is for the second time then.

Thanks till now! More tips are welcome

WTF are you doing? What kind of person are you? Your going to try to take her away from her boyfriend while he is playing soccer? Can you not get anymore girls? Seriously. You have been judged. Weakling.

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Well thank you. It wasn't my idea.. She comes up with it.. And yeah I see something in her.. Its like a big connection like I know her from a long time.. She has something thats different..

I've ignored it long enough if you ask me.. And when she keeps being interested in me.. Why shouldn't I ?

It doesn't sound like the dude's done much wrong to you.

And although this girl maybe super hot/cool/smart/funny/THE ONE. You just met her, so for there to be a SUPER intense LOVE connection just yet.. is unlikely..

I wouldn't mess with it, just to be clear again

BUT, that call is yours to make.

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You are right.. I'm probably seeing too much in it Problem is.. when you had 1 succes and it didn't really turn out in a relation.. You have much drive to make something new which you can succeed with..

I've had a time that I wanted it too much that I only made everything worth with girl.. But ok..

About she asking me out I must be a little more clear.. She remembered me of telling about the place.. And she asked me when I was going there again.. Then she suggested that while her BF was playing soccer she wanted to drink tea with me..

After that I didn't picked a sentence like: Meeting up? We are far from that stadium.. But I told her I won't be going there for a while because it was pretty far from my house and I first wanted to have my drivers license..

That wasn't the appropiate reaction.. Since I told her that she took a little more distance.. We still laugh.. She even laughs when nobody thinks it's funny including me haha..

I try to maintain longer and stronger eye contact with her and that goes well.. Next time we have a little chat ill let the kino escalate a little more to see how she reacts..

But I think I messed up.

wow that was a little much.. give the kid a break , they both like to party and theres nothing wrong with a little bang bang boom. my best sexual encounters come from girls that were with someone else and i dont regret any of them for a second.

If I took a girl from another guy then I would be worried she would leave me in the future for another man. I'm just saying find a single girl. Their are millions of them everywhere. And they don't come with as much emotional baggage. I don't think the OP is wanted just to fuck. He is talking crazy like he wants to marry her and shit.

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Hey,

A little update here. Yesterday I needed to wait for 2 hours for my driving lesson to start. She needed to wait 2 hours also. We talked for over two hours.. Mentioned the boyfriend once.. And what she brought up was that in the weekend she waited for her BF to come home.. She freaking waited from 13:00 till 22:00..

I have some questions. Yesterday I most of the time analysed her behaviour.. She is constantly touching her hair and can't sit still.. When it get's quiet she always starts to talk.. But why when we walk somewhere else is she walking so fast ? She walks 1 meter in front of me.. Is she scared nervous or?

Didn't really got much kino going.. She told me she did nothing for 8 hours to get her nails done And I toke her hand too look at it for a while.. Should I take some more kino in it?