OK here's the deal. I'm new at this PUA stuff but I'm trying to learn all i can. The thing is i got situation that I would like to get your opinions on how I should handle it. A female friend of mine is trying to set me up with one of her friends. This girl is pretty hot. id rate her a 8.5 maybe 9. Now the setup is going to be me, my female friend and her boyfriend (who is also a good friend) and this girl are going to meet up at a bar or maybe a restaurant. I think i have a good advantage because my female friend is a alpha female. So i think her high approval of me to her friend should be a powerful advantage. I need some advice on how to go about the interaction with this girl in this setting. Should I still neg her and act as if im not REAL interested? Move into kino pretty quick? Any info or suggestions would be greatly appreciated. thanks

Neg the target would be good first yes And don't pay too much attention too her.. When you think she deserves it you give her attention, add some kino.. Get a k-close or when that doesnt work out just number close.

I'll make it really simple for you. Go in with this mindset:

"I'm here to have a good time and this girl is nothing more than an after thought."

That should pretty much sum up how you should talk to her. If you can truly get yourself in that mind set, it will work itself out.


Also, for the love of God, do not TRY to impress her. Every newbie does it. It's ok you're new so it happens but it won't win you any prizes.

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thanks guys. good info. I am new but I listen and learn well.
I do not want to be a AFC. My biggest weakness is that I'm not good at starting conversations. If she is a really outgoing talkative girl I will do well (I can role with it good) but if she is quite I may struggle to keep conversation going. We'll see!