Foreign Girl - Seeing her Saturday need suggestions



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PostPosted: Fri Mar 12, 2010 2:28 am 
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So the other day at a cafe I met a HB8 from Columbia (the country). She was making eye contact with me the entire time as I ate, I left with my friends to sort of get them out of the way, and then came back in to chat her up. The conversation lasted about 5 minutes but was difficult because she has a VERY LIMITED UNDERSTAND of English. Normal lines were ineffective, simply because she couldn't understand. She was however laughing at what she did understand, so I know she has a sense of humor. The only way I was able to close was basically through stealth attraction (Thanks Gambler!)

After getting her number, we found each other online, and have plans to hangout around town on Saturday after noon.

The question is: How the hell am I supposed to run my style of game on someone that has serious difficulty grasping the English Language?! She is excited to hangout, and she might bring a friend, in which case I'll bring a friend to keep the other one occupied.

This girl is gorgeous, but when I talk to her, she makes me stop and slow down a lot so she can understand what I'm saying. My limited understand of Spanish also makes it tough to get things through with her, and I'm stuck throwing out synonyms that she may or may not understand.

The only thing I have in my arsenal is a good friend who sucks with girls but girls all love him to death, and he speaks spanish near fluently.

Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.


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PostPosted: Fri Mar 12, 2010 9:10 am 
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You are going to have to use a lot of non-verbal game. Body language, facial expressions, eye contact, voice, leading, etc... If she isn't judging you on conversational skills (which women usually don't anyway), she will be judging you on everything else. Mainly on how you make her feel. If you seem like a warm, inviting guy, with a good personality, that is fun to be around; language isn't an issue, she will simply judge you based on what she can see.

Talking is good to get a girl to notice you and trust you, but women aren't drawn to words, they are drawn to the charisma and personality used to deliver those words. The words are almost meaningless. Which is why most canned lines are never about anything important anyway. They are just a way to get a girl to observe your personality for a set amount of time.


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