Sorry for the length of this...
Last week I was flying back up to school and coincidentally this girl I know was only my flight. We talked for a while before we boarding and once we got on, I asked the person she was sitting next to to switch with me.
Wasn't really expecting much however things went pretty well. Great conversation, she was constantly laughing at w/e I said, a lot of kino (from her as well). Had a bunch of things in common and what not... it was actually a "fun" plane ride b/c of how well things seemed to have gone. We wind up splitting a taxi back to school and chit chat and flirt some more. Then parted ways for the night.
A few hours later I decide hey I got some momentum with this chick lets see where this can go. I shoot her a text and banter a bit... she's eating it up. I figure fuck it (which may have been my first mistake, jumping the gun) I suggested I go to her room to watch a DVD we had talked about earlier. She said she was going to hang out with friends but asked me if I wanted to meet her so she could give me the DVDs. I then made it clear I wanted to watch them with her and she said she's going to see her friends but once again offered me the DVDs so I just said nevermind. K w/e.
I don't see her much since she's pledging but the few times I do we make EC from across the dining hall and she'd give me some kind of cute face and I'd just smile at her. Then I'd just go about my business.
A few days later I decide to invite her to my formal. She responds via text "aww you're so cute" (I guess cause of the way I asked) and said she'd have to ask her pledge master (since she's pledging) so I said arite let me know. I text her the next day asking what happened and she said she didn't see her PM that night and would definitely let me know the next day. Then my friend who setup formal asked me (again) if I was bringing a date so I told him the deal. He offered to talk to her PM. I asked her if she wanted my friend to just ask about it so
she didn't have to and she responds with...
"I'm sorry, I don't wanna make you wait for me so if u want u can ask someone else, and its going to be our last wknd pledging and the people who got invited to formal aren't going so we could spend it together. Thank u so much for inviting me tho I really appreciate it u're the best
" I was fairly disappointed so I just responded with Arite.
Saw her the next day next day (I was fuckin hungover) I tell her she laughs makes eye contact. See her again, eye contact, she comes up to me I make her laugh, we get on bus and I talk to other people.
This is the first girl thats presented any type of challenge for me since I got to college. I dig her and definitely want to try to close this (I am gaming other girls) Seemed like there was attraction and interest but with that formal situation I don't know. I'm not sure how to handle this now? Maybe freeze out for a few days and slowly work back into it with much less effort on my part? Just ignore it w/o a freeze out and keep gaming? Just straight up next her? Not sure guys. Help? Thanks!
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