Just going to go into detail in saying this is a chick that I have almost dated a few times, she wanted it when I didn't persay. I've known her for a while, I'd say around 4 years. I met her while working with her and I became friends with her, she had a crush on me. I was like 18 and just wanting pussy back then and she wasnt and still isnt all about that. I tried to close with sex once or twice and it didnt get anywhere because she is the relationship type. Shes a shy girl. I'm now 21 and I know a lot of chicks but its something about this chick that I dig more than any other chick. Shes almost done with college now and I talk to her a lot I'd say atleast 3 times a week. We text and talk online/SPAM, etc. I'm going to visit her here soon and I dont know how to be more direct to her considering shes one of those mature girls that has a good sense of humor so if I hit on her she sometimes thinks Im joking around. Her roommate asked me if I was gonna come see her and stuff so apparently she talks about me to an extend just not sure on what level that is. Any tips on this situation would be much appreciated. I dont need gaming tips and stuff just maybe methods on how I could make it more direct, like when I go hang out with her. It will most likely be a party scene but it will be a weekend thing so I'll have plenty of time to make things happen cause it wont all be drunk bs. Any help is appreciated.

What exactly is your goal with this girl?

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look into the escalation ladder