I can't seem to let this one go. It's bugging me! I'm doing a few week trial run of using an ultra-persistence method, even through flakes. After I normally would give up and save face, I'm casting a few more texts out there to see if I can re-hook. Here's the latest flaky girl in my trial...

Here's the story:

I met an HB 9 at the club 3 weeks ago. She is a Bolivian chick. I used a situational opener on her. There was a really slutty random girl walking around the club that would come and hang on me when she saw me. Every time she passed by, she grabbed my cock. She was pretty drunk. The Bolivian chick was sitting down with her friend and watched the random come up to me. Since the random was pretty drunk, she was stepping all over my feet hugging me. She slipped her hand down to my junk very incognito-like before she walked off. I didn't think anyone saw it. I look over and I see the Bolivian chick and her friend laughing and making eye contact with me. I thought they were just laughing at how intoxicated the random was. I walk over to them and situationally opened them. I said, "This chick has been stepping on my feet all night!" They respond, "and grabbing your cock too!" I say, "Ahhh, I didn't even notice that; that actually happens to me alot." This was more cocky then funny but the Bolivian seemed pretty cocky herself so I raised the bar. I didn't isolate but kino'd and DHV'd myself the whole time. They asked me why I don't date that chick. I said scoffingly, "I only date 9's and 10's." Again, this was more cocky then funny but considering how hot this Bolivian was, I made a calculated decision to step up the cockyness a bit more.

I tried number closing her and she says, "I don't give my number out to guys at the club." I persisted through this and finally got it. She says, "I want you to text me tomorrow."

I didn't text her the next day because I thought it was a shit-test. I waited til the day after.

The text convo went well at the beginning but the problem is, is that we will make tentative plans for a day 2 the next week. We will agree to talk Monday to eachother when we know our schedules for the rest of the week. It seems like she can't set anything in stone until the beginning of the week when she knows her schedule. I tell her I'll text on Monday. I text Monday and she doesn't respond. This has happened 3 weeks in a row now. Each time I'll wait 5-6 days (freeze-out) and then I can't take it anymore!

I know I should just say fuck it and move on but I'm testing out persistence with this one because after about my 3rd text in a row (over a period of a few days), she'll respond again, saying sorry she was tied up with such and such. My last-ditch-effort text before I get her to respond is,

-No response. Ouch. ...and I thought you were nice.

She'll text back right away and say, "I am nice!" I know I should have already given up on this because she has power over me now and we both know it. I'm being much more persistent then I usually would be because she's very hott and I'm sort of testing a persistence method lately rather then giving up right away.

Our text convo today was great and I asked her if she wanted to meet up real quick Friday evening before we each do whatever our main plans are. She seemed enthused about it but didn't give a definite yes. She said, "Well text me when you get off work Friday." I said, "Ok well are you gonna respond this time?" She said yes. I have a feeling she won't.

What should I do from here to keep the testing of my persistence phase going? How can I get a day 2 to actually happen? Should I start getting stern and laying ultimatums and hope she doesn't call my bluff? I've already used the "I'm pretty busy" tactic, the "This is what I'm doing, you can come along" tactic and shown non-needyness about the day 2. None of this has worked. It just seems like a week will go by and I'll text again because I know if I don't, we will just never talk again. I can't believe she's okay with that. I've DHV'd the shit out of myself and she shouldn't feel so indifferent at this point by not responding because she is very receptive to my value when we are communicating. What should I text on Friday after I get off work?

It sounds like she's already won. If you're taking the time to figure out what to do next and even posting on a forum about what to do, you're better off with another girl.

A hot girl like her knows how to push a guy's buttons. It sounds like she's pushing yours.

from my limited experience i would say its not a good idea to draw attention to her flakiness with you. this makes it seem like you want her more than she wants you. if she flakes than don't contact her at all. saying "are you gonna flake again?" is demonstrating low value. be distant and aloof until she follows through. she hasn't proven herself to be worthy of high interest.

also, i kinda agree with the poster above. you are in a bad spot situationally. aloofness would be my tactic.

I think you should say that your busy and that you cant go that day. Don't ask her if it'll be alright. You let her pull the Monday crap off so you'll have to reestablish dominance. If you continue to do as you do you'll most likely get the same results. If she doesn't talk to you or says that you cant set another date then she has No interest in you and is just playing you.