I work as a bartender in a night club. About 2 weeks ago while I was working I met a HB9 and her sister. Talked for a min or two and she wrote down her num and said to "call me" (I did not ask for her num, btw) We had a little txt convo over the last 2 weeks, I said we should hang out when were not busy and she said "sure just let me know when your free" I havent talked to her since last sunday and I was planning on asking her out for next weekend. Last night she and her sister came into the bar where I work and sat at a table. Talked with some guy (he bought both of them a drink) and then they left (not with the guy though). It just seems weird that she would come into my work,(knowing that I'm going to be there) sit there and drink for a little bit and not say anything to me or even come up to the bar. Then leave. also its not the only bar on the street, she had tons of options there are 30 other bars/nightclubs in liek 5 min of walking distance.

Whats going on here?

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>Whats going on here?

Come on kid. You're the man. She was expecting YOU to come over and talk to them?

Is that really that difficult to comprehend.

You've just failed one of her tests... You need to text her/call her.
If it was me, I'd text her... A little cocky/funny with a bit of honesty would go down well here.

You: Hey you're not very good stalker are you? I see you on ______ night and you don't even come over to say hello? LOL. Look I'm sorry I didn't come over and say hi, it's just that I thought you were having one of those serious conversations with your sister. How's your wknd been? x

Done.


DO NOT ignore this!

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really?? I just played it like I didnt see her at all. We didnt make eye contact. Plus, I was really busy and she was only there for 20 min..

I dont like the idea that you said about her "expecting" me to come over and talk to her. She is not the prize by any means. I was at work and was busy. If anything, I was expecting her to come over and talk to me. If your going to come into my place of work and not even sit at the bar. What is up with that?? To be honest, who the fuck does she think she is....?? Seriously.. you expect me to stop working, and come over to you.. Why wouldnt you just come up to the bar and sit there. After looking closer at this situation it really makes her very unattractive IMO (unless she just came in and didnt see me, very unlikely unless she is blind... but ill give her the benifit of doubt.)

Lately ive been trying to play the game with a dont give a shit attitude and just be in the game for fun. So I am thinking of just seein if she wants to go out on friday.

But again.. i would like everyones input on this.. thanks

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Wrong mindset, wrong attitude.

She came there ESPECIALLY for YOU. Period.

Come on man, she's just another little, indecisive girl... sat with her sister.

All these thoughts are running through her mind...

"Why didn't he come up to speak to me... What happens if I go up to the bar and he ignores me? What will my sister think... I'll be soooo embarassed... I gave him my number...Maybe he thinks I'm stalking him..."

Why allow all those indecisive thoughts to run through her mind??

Simply walk up to her and RUN the show. A simple text msg would sort this out.

She'll forget all about it, she'll harp on about her weekend...and then you turn that positive energy onto yourself and consolidate your day 2 or whatever.

Either way, it's your game... Do what you want to do? She'll probably go out with you on Friday if she really likes you.

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okay well i missed that. what should i txt her. go with the c/f "ur not a very good stalker".. ?

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tweeby, I followed your insturctions. When I thought about it, it made sense. Our txt went as follows:

ME: hey ur not a ver good stalker are you.LOL I saw u sat night and u dont even say hi. I was gonna talk to you but I was really busy n then u left.

HB9: haha im so sorry I didnt mean to be a weirdo..I was tryin to show a guy friend around

I waited about 10 min to txt back..
ME: no worries. I looked up and there u were then like a min later u were gone haha. what r u pu to this weekend?

then I got nothing. To be fare she does have to get up really early for work and we were txting around 10 pm. This happened once before and she txted me the next morning appologzing, saying she just fell asleep.

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