Hi. My name is Manny.

I am 18 and a freshman in college.

After realizing how much I missed out on in high school, I am really trying as hard as possible to make the most out of my four years in college (the first already seems to be dwindling away). This forum seems like one of the best ways to improve my game and develop relationships with women.

I have met several girls at various junctions in college, although parties seem to be the prime place to meet girls that want to have a fun physical night.

I realize that I have my issues with confidence and anxiety, but that aside, what are the steps to go about trying to connect and hookup with these girls in college? After I meet a girl that seems to be interested, and we have an entertaining conversation, Im supposed to just ask for her phone number then right? I mean I know I need to do it in a cocky and funny way, but after talking for a little while is that not the next step?

After getting phone numbers its all about scheduling the next date in a day or two right?

I know college girls are generally less uptight when it comes to sex too, and I feel like they want to have physical relations (its really obvious on the dance floor) but I just dont know how to go about bringing it up or initiating it without seeming creepy or making it uncomfortable.

sorry if the post is kinda long, just wanted to get all of my thoughts out there and i appreciate all the advice thats given.

thank god we have places like this to work together.

You'd be better off doing a little research, man. You just asked like six questions and all of them have many many answers. I would suggest starting with some internet research. Watch some videos. Then maybe buy the Mystery Method. All of the stuff you just asked is in that book.

ive read all of david deangelos stuff, but im currently thinking about getting rules of the game by neil strauss. is that a good book?

no ones just ever really answered the question for me of if after talking for a little while asking for the phone number is the next thing you should do? and that that is not gonna be uncomfortable or socially akward?