I'm currently reading Richards book and it's my new bible, I also watched some PUA tips on you tube saying be in charge.
On Saturday night I pulled and kiss closed a beautiful girl. I have to admit I'm not a complete novice to this. I nearly got her back to mine but she was in two minds and she decided to stay at hers ( i think she lived with her parents)
The question I have is. She said to me 'so are you going to call me' as i suspected she had a boyfriend (which was i wasn't happy with) i said no.. once you decide what you want you can call me, my number is already in your phone which it was and i showed her.
I was trying to show higher value, did I mess up?
On a second question i'm finding it difficult competing against others and friends have moved in on my set any tips for this.


oh yeah this is my first post. And my other friends and new friends think I am a legend due to doing some of these little exercises

Focus on keeping a strong frame. Alway lead the conversation. If an AFC joins your conversation, make sure to always lead the conversation, and control it.

Obviously demonstrate value to the girls and the guys, and they will just follow suit.

(had this happen last weekend where the HB i was gaming was swarmed by 8 or 9 AFC's who were ALL trying so hard to get in the pants. It was terribly hard to stay on top when everyone just wanted to ignore me to "remind the HB of that time they sat together in a class" or that time they saw each other on campus.. or some AFC move like that. One or two aren't that hard to handle. but when it's just like a zoo of AFC's.. it' gets overwhelming.

The best advice i can give you on the AMOG/AFC stuff, is if it gets bad, try to bounce the set of girls or the HB. take her by the hand (compliance test)

-Go dance with her
-show her your cool new keychain/magic trick/cock/W/E
-go to the bar area/grab a new drink with her

remove her from the problem basically.
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As far as the girl. I don't think you did anything wrong per say. She just has a boyfriend. The way you left it, she will call you if she wants, and she won't call you if she doesn't want to.

At this point the only thing you can do is wait it out at least for a week or so. (2 weeks would be better) see if she contacts you. If not then you can re-asess and maybe strike up a convo in the future. she's doing the deciding for now.

So basically a FREEZE OUT.

Good luck!

hi,
thanks for your response. I know what you mean left to my own devices the conversation can flow,add an afc whos game is slightly higher than mine and i panic and struggle. I had one situation where a 'frend' walked pass did a pose with his arms and the girl follwed him.
I think i need to improve inner game for this.. like i said some nights i'm unstopable.

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Re the girl and number situation thanks for that. I'm about to write a piece explaning a bit about me in the introduce yourself section.
However I have a tendancy to panic and think that was my last ever pull. And kinda go over it in my head and character assasinate myself.
I wasn't fully committed for good reason but.. she wanted me.