i met with this HB8 for a couple of dates in two consecutive weekends and k-closed. after 2 days, left a message regarding setting up day 4, but she left a voicemail (after 3-days) that she is "busy this weekend" and said she had a very busy week, hence the delay in responding.

for setting up the next meetup, should i let one week go, and then try to arrange something the following week or is it fine to try to arrange something the very next week? should i make any contact this week at all, or will that look like i am chasing her?

i am asking because in case she says she is busy this coming weekend too, then i think it might be a dlv to call again for the following weekend, making it look like i am trying too hard to meet up with her.

thank you for your help.

well you already hung out 3 times.. she should be comfortable enough to call you whenever she wants to hang out... so call her to say whats up, and before hanging up tell her to , "call you when your free and when you want to hang out" .. considering she hung out with you 3 times before you know she's interested in you, so you need to trust that she'll call you within a week. .. don't sweat her too much about HAVING TO HANG OUT, because you'll come off as pushy and needy... your not in that stage of a relationshp where you need to see each other at least once a week.
remember, "if your not afraid of losing her, you'll never get her. -Mystery"

Well Mike1

I am not an expert in PUA as I have only started approaching since the New Year started.

I think the earlier post on not being needy is correct.

I would suggest call her but don't try to ask her out or even mention a d2. Mehow suggests a strategy like this in his phone game chapter.

Just call her up and tell her you only have a few minutes to talk and then end the conversation after about 5 minutes.

Keeps you in her mind but not being needy about seeing her again.

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thank you loyalknicksfan and Honest Tom, shall try out your advice and call her with this new approach.