Now the fact of meeting him isn't such a problem, I can and will face the fact she isn't mine. However there is some jealousy coming from the she's sleeping with him why not me scenario. VERY afc way of thinking I know.
Now here's my dilema; she wants me to meet him fair enough, but I got this feeling it will be tomorrow when we go to our social dance class that we've been doing together for some time now. During these classes I get MAJOR DHV from just rocking up with her, the women of the classes enjoy dancing with me and have fun. I believe its from the pre-selection factor.
I'm getting this thought that if he rocks up with her I will instantly lose the pre-selection because then everyone will know she had chosen someone else!!!!!
Just had another thought, I think I feel that he is 'intruding' on my grounds. Very neanderthal I know lol. Do I just accept it and meet him there? or should I avoid it by suddenly not making it? What would an experienced PUA do?

try to act alfa. just pretend that you dont care, be friendly and dance with the other women and show off how good you are without acting like your showing off.

Act like I don't care, check. Be friendly, check. Meeting him no worries. Does my theory have merit? Guess I'll find out by the re-actions of the other chicks actions.

Wait till they start making out. Then you pull your pants down and jerk-off. Bonus points if you can manage to drool a bit and grunt a few noises.

I suggest, "Grrhhh. . . gurgle, gurgle." Another one that seems to be popular is "fa la la la!!" . . . And if you can make it work, "Slinka dinka minka dee. Flinka tinka binka taa.

Relax! Be yourself, DHV yourself if you can with other women and she will take notice, be that kool guy!

qft!!




On a serieus note though: Forget about her being your gf. Your in the friendzone now, and from what i can make out your also pretty close as friends. If so, then she won't even think of you as a potential mate.

Focus on other girls, be alpha, dance with them. Show you can have a good time with any girl you want. The other girls probebly love dancing with you because you're pretty good. Not just because you got a friend you always dance with.

But if you're really crazy about your friend, then I suggest you try outgaming him. And read up on 'how to get out of the friendzone?' stuff.

lol, and in the middle of the dance floor.