So skip the formalities.
How to deal with a girl thats taller than you

She might not mention it at all
She might shit test you about it

Any good advice ?

youl be suprised how some girls are pretty open, there very self-concious about theyre height, unless ofcourse she's a hired gun

just smile, its contagious..

there like another other girl, only there insecurity is very obvious, most of the time guys dont date girls taller than them(its socially conditioning thing), so they dont really get approached that much..i would see it as an opportunity

I'm 5'5 when I wear a pair of shoes with a generous amount of sole and after a SPAM of hair gel. In college, I dated a girl on the basketball team . . . anyhow, here's a funny exchange from a few months ago:

In an Asian country:

Kasabi: Are you a model? (Only because she was too tall and not attractive enough to be one)
HB: No.

K: Oh . . . well, you're obviously taaaaall enough to be one.
HB: LOL . . . I play basketball.

K: Cool . . . so you play in a club?
HB: Yes, it's called the Olympic team.

K: Very impressive.
HB: No, we lose all the time. We lost every game and came home.

K: Too bad. Better luck next time . . .
HB: Why are you talking to me?

K: Because you're gorgeous and I want to talk to you.
HB: My friends and I are going to ______ club.

K: OK, I'll join you.
HB: Did you drive your own car?

She's the tallest . . .

I've always wanted to know... why do so many short guys like girls taller than them? seems to me a bit unnatural to want to look *up* into a girl's eyes.

One thing I noticed though is that tall girls actually seem to appreciate a tall guy less than shorter girls. This is from a lot of experience. Of course they still like tall guys, but the shorter girls are the ones that really really are crazy about them. These short girls (we're talking like 5'2" to 5'4") say it is because tall guys give them a feeling of security (they feel safe & protected around a tall guy), but whatever it is... I still find it strange.

.... wait, and if the girl's hair is blonder the youres? whay do you do then?
... or if she wears a redder shirt then you?
.. or... or.. if .. if...


...so she's taller/smaller, it doesn't really matter you know...

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For the same reason you see tall (by tall I mean 6'4'+ in height), with girls that are like 5'3". As lot of these people have an issue with their height and wish that they where shorter or taller. Saying that this does not mean this is true for everyone, as there are tall guys that actually like a 5'3" girl and a 5'5" guy that likes 5'10" girls. There is also those that over look the height and are more attracted to what is inside the person.
Thats interesting as my experience differs from yours. I find that tall girls appreciate my height just as much or more than the shorter girls do. But the taller girls tend to be more quite in showing their appreciation for it tho. I do agree with you on the shorter girls tho, but I will also say it is because a lot them also wanted to be taller as well.

yeah I guess it's not an exact science, lol

Mosty guys are as you probably know intimidated by tall girls. It is a problem for them. So if you dont care abouth their height you are special and have an advantage.

I never ever comment on the obvious. Like, you have big tits, you are tall, you are blonde, you are pretty, etc etc. Dont you think she has heard that a million times already?

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bbardot: you just reminded me about porn

if she is tall, like 5'10-5'11". Then I ask her how tall she is. Sometimes I make a bad guess too, like slightly too low. And when she tells me I say... "wow, that's terrible" or "that's -too- tall" but not in a completely serious way. but disclaimer I'm still 5-6" taller than they are", so they will often answer with something like "why? but you're tall too"

not really sure if that would fly if you're shorter than the girl... who knows? maybe it would? (At least the terrible remark)

really I just want to know her height, but can't keep my mouth shut.. lol


...you know, I never even thought about this until I just wrote that above, but I guess this might actually have some psychological value - because I just met her and already she's saying she's good for me. Cool, I'm gonna start doing that to short girls too.... saying it's not good, she's too short and well ain't nothing gonna happen between us unless she's the kind of girl that will wear heels in bed

I know I get pretty annoyed with "you are tall" comments. Saying that I have had girls put a twist on such comments by making them into joke or delivering them in different ways which I actually like. So I think you can point out the obvious but it really comes down to delivery of it.