I have a gut feeling coupled with some slight hearsay evidence that a friend of a HB 9 (that I have been avoiding) is going to ask me straight out do you like ZCSDJNF the HB9 or it might be worded as you were/are mad into HB9

The truth of the matter is that i showed far to much obvious AFC interest in the HB9 for a couple of months and when i realised i had no chance and had blown it by showing too much interest i avoided her completely and have not met her in 6 months--i know ive got her curious as to why the absolute freeze out--am not sure whether the friends mentioning her will be directed by the HB9 or not or whether it is a set up/tease the loser routine for their egos.

Anyway guys if this question or statement is made by the friend what should my response be--i'll be honest i wouldnt mind scoring with the HB9 but id like it to be completely on my terms and there is also a very strong possibility that her and/or her friends would be trying to take the piss

Tough one and I'm sure some better answers will follow but here is my suggestion:

Could brush it off and say what are we in school or something? Tell her to ask me herself.

or

Of course I like her we're friends - duh.

Thanks Jock--i might go with the first one

I posted a similar thread a few weeks ago

Where the friend of a HB10 (seriously.) myself and the HB10 were at a party, i was gaming, and when she went to the restroom, the friend leaned to me and said "so you and {HB}... do you like her?"

I think i brushed it off and said "I'm not too worried about it" or something like that

but then she asked "Do you want me to hook you two up?"

I said something like

"Of course.. have her ready tuesday around 8.. make sure she dresses nice.. and I don't like waiting" (Smile)

bottom line is, if you've already freezed her out, she will be confused. so no harm in being confident, and displaying your intentions.. at least a little bit.. give the friend something cocky funny to chew on, that says simply "YES"... Chances are the friend will only want to help! (if you are confident enough in yourself.)

What if its worded by the friend like this ''Why don't you like SHFFFVNVBHD [hb] any more--did she say or do something too you'' ?

Will the world end if you answer this question in any sort of way?

Wow. 6 months. That's a hell of a freeze out!

She had it comming

haha ya thats one way to put an HB down a notch ... hey Herne was she confused about the freeze out like did she go a little crazy over this wondering what the hell she did wrong!!?

im just curious...

Id say both---she was frozen out because she realised i had developed oneitis and she started the hard to get/nose in the air/dont hate me because im beautiful routine---and also and worse she laughed loudly at a douche bags jokes while i was in the vicinity

After i froze her out she made 2 efforts to speak to me and physically bump into me saying sorry on both occasions--i gave her a bare grunted answer--''yer grand'' to both of these without even turning around to look at her----then i went for iceberg freeze out---for past 5 months i have studiously avoided all contact with her-----dont go into where she works---dont walk past where she works---even use a different bus route to avoid meeting her

thats dedication. id say you can strike it up again.

but why do you get the feeling her friends are going to randomly ask you after 5 months?

Girls elicit the help of their friends to ferret out emotions/feelings when they're interested in you. If they're not interested, they don't care and won't ask a friend to do dirty work for them like this.

There is one of them that i bump into and shes being over friendly acting as if i know her--which i dont

If she asks you if you like her/ did she do something wrong /why havnt you spoken to her. Just say (with a neutral, non excited tone) "Shes cool, havnt seen her in a while actually" asif it hadnt really occured to you. Also (when your not talking about the HB) casually mention a girl asif your seeing someone or dating, but dont do it in an obvious way. That will make her think she lost her chance with you while she was being an idiot doing her snotty routine, someother girl snapped you up.

Thanks,
Dorian

Very good Dorian i'll deffo take your advice-----very thin line between being cool and non needy and burning your bridges for good