| Here's the situation.
I met this girl at a bar last night and got her back to her place for all night, morning, and this afternoon F-close. Some quick details on the pickup, she has the body of an 8 but is clearly self-conscious of her 6ish face, and she's a ball buster. I can tell she gets hit on by average dudes a lot, so I run solid game, teasing her a lot, telling her she would look great in a different shirt that fit her body type better, never staying to talk to her by the pool table for more than 2-3 minutes at a time, never complimenting her, all the general shit you do to a ball buster. I'm already the alpha guy at this point, so it's not a difficult process.
Here's the interesting point.
So she's admitted by the 3rd time we had sex that I've given her more orgasms in one night than she's had in her life. I learned some stuff about her through the night that clearly show she is damaged goods, I don't know if it's mommy/daddy issues or what. I started to notice when at one point, after we finished having sex, she started to freak and say I was going to just leave, and she figured I was like that, got really aggressive and mad, and I mean out of NOWHERE. She says she doesn't know why she is acting that way, and it doesn't make sense. I start to leave, and tell her "You know, communicating with me about this would be much better than letting this situation end awkward," and she comes back around. I do all the right things, distract her from any problems, and she's all over me.
Well after I feel like I've done a pretty damn good job or getting her hers, I feel like it's time for me to get mine. It's a shit ton of work for me to get off from sex, so I ask if she'd do me a solid and return the favor. She starts playing around with me, never really making an effort to go for the gold, if you catch my drift, and keeps completely stopping, or just goes from working on it to rubbing my stomach lightly and teasing me. This happens (no bullshit) like 5 times in 45 min. and then she just stops again. I ask if something is wrong, and she says no, so I'm like, whats the problem? She says there isn't one.
Then out of nowhere she says I should probably leave, that she's keeping me from getting stuff done by hanging out with her all day. She starts moping around the house cleaning here and there, pausing in the bathroom with her head down, sitting on the couch looking weird. I put my clothes on, tell her thanks for the interesting night and evening, and that if she ever figures out what is going on with herself to give me a call. She says nothing is wrong, I kiss her on the cheek, and she still looks kind of depressed as I leave.
So my questions are as follows:
1.) What do you guys suggest to do when a girl doesn't want to return the favor in my situation? (minor freeze out didn't work, neither did asking if anything was amiss)
2.) Besides bi polar issues, what do you think might have set this chick off? I've honestly never run into anything like this before and was completely taken aback.
3.) I'm not really concerned about dating her or laying her again, but just to get some insight, other than waiting for her to call me and letting her know that the situation was awkward because of her, how might you guys play into getting another lay?
Thanks for any insight guys.
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