I am at the point where i can say that I am a proficient Pick Up Artist.

I've been known to go out and have 3 or more k-closes in one night
last weekend I went to the bars, and took home an HB9 that I'd never met before.
I'm very confident, and Know most of the theories, and inner game workings of this community. I've almost got this down to a science.

However..

The first girl that i actually have any sort of emotional attachment to, won't even give me the time of day. I know I'm doing everything right. i've tried to experiment with what works and what doesn't work for her.. She is by every definition an HB10.. No questions asked.

We've kissed, and since then, she barely texts any more, and then when I text (which i try to lay off) she barely ever responds. I feel like she is gaming me...

It's not oneitus.. but it could very potentially become this.. I know that it's not the girl, it's the process. but why can I get ANY girl, except the ones i really want?

There is an event next weekend that I need a date for.. I really would like to ask her, But i can't even gauge where I stand with her.. It's pathetic..


Any advice for this dilemma?

Maybe you're attracted so heavily to her BECAUSE she isn't giving you the attention you want.

I've noticed that when I've had one-itis in the past it was because it was a girl I could not game successfully. Then I realized this and moved on pretty easily.

Not saying that this is your situation too, just re-examine things and decide which came first - her not giving you the time of day or you being heavily attracted.

Well attraction came at first sight (she is a TEN) but beyond that, it grew as i realized that she had quite the personality. and it was really playful at first, now it's just annoying.

So attraction came before she started giving me this shit.. But the thrill of the chase did keep me from not just giving up I suppose.

But.. still attracted.

Any ideas on how to ASK her to a date party?