hi guys been following this place for a while and enjoy a lot of your discussions

i am making my first post in the hope of getting some thoughts on this situation thats recently arisen....

basically i moved in with this girl about 3 weeks ago, whom i knew before but was never very close with. since ive moved in it seems weve gotten along quite well. shes always laughing etc.. anyway weve been spending quite a lot of time together, shes given me the occasional massage as of this past week. we went to the beach today and then dinner and ice cream etc.. pretty standard couples stuff. yet were not, and i somehow feel she doesnt see me in anyway as a romantic interest? how can u want to do these things, enjoy them, tell someone in a shy way they are hot, massage someone with your legs aroudn them, and not feel the attraction?

Lots in this message first don't hit on your housemate, it will end badly. Second you say it sounds like couple stuff but would you do those things with a guy friend? Seems more like friendly hanging out with a housemate.

As for the nonsexual thing I had a girl housemate of mine in my bed the other night jsut hugging and things but it is more a friendship thing. So yeah man, if you want to save yourself a lot of hassle don't go for it, if you want to ignore that then it sounds like you are en route to the friendzone anyways. Hmmm don't shit where you eat

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