Let's say your at a club, bar, work, park, etc., how would you know if they are single? Just because they are alone doesn't necessarily mean they're single, just cause they're out with their friends, it could be a girls night out. I mean, come on, you guys gotta help me out.

Hey, do you have a boyfriend?




COME ON, IT'S NOT SO HARD. If you're curious if she's taken you

1. talk to her
2. ask if she has a boyfriend.



Are you ashamed of being interested her? Are you being ashamed of your own sexual desires as a man?

It's been said on here and elsewhere a million times over. THE BOYFRIEND DOESN'T MATTER. Every girl is a potential target unless she has her tongue down the throat of an adjacent man who is armed with a lethal firearm.

So let's say she HAS a boyfriend and is honest with you about it. Fine, you move on. But did you qualify that statement? Is she going to break up with that boyfriend tomorrow and is looking for some hot rebound sex? Did she just meet this chump and is willing to trade up to someone cuter, more interesting, etc? Is she a "bad girl" and looking to cheat because her boyfriend is a limp-dick or is horrible in the sack?

Sadly I agree, but I also disagree

I didn't get into pickup to break up relationships. The only reason I would do that is if he is Chris Browning her, etc

But I would NEVER attempt to pickup a girl that has a steady long term boyfriend and they love eachother very much. I think back to when I was an AFC and wouldn't be able to do it. He got lucky like I never did and why would I ruin that for him?

if a girl wants to be picked up she will be

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I totally agree with that statement. If she starts flirting with u, go for it, dont think if shes taken or not. I dont think even asking her that is pointless. I once met a girl at a party that was a friend of a friend of a friend. Started talking to her, took her out, bumped uglies. Next time there was a party and we came togather, her friend took me aside and told me she had a husband who was out of the country for a month or more. I didnt believe it at first, and started asking her pretty directly if she had someone. She denied and was trying to assure me she was single. I asked couple more friends and all of them said she was married.

I didnt continue the relationship because i didnt want to deal with all that, but that shows u its all up to a girl if she wants to cheat or find someone new and leave her bf/husband.