I'm not new to the concept of gaming, but I am new at implementing the tools given. Before I say more about the situation, you should all know that I am a female (lesbian). I'm here for the same reasons all of you are.

I'm 21, and I'm into this older woman (35). I've known her for over two years, but we never get the chance to talk much (she's a receptionist for someone that I see). She flirts with me pretty openly, although at first I was relatively sure that she was straight.

My question to all of you is basically what my options are as far as what to do next. I've got IOIs, I've got obvious flirting..so what now?

Thanks,
J

If you ever come to Orange County in California, give me a call... i would love to sarge with you just dont cock block me lol

so... my fellow friend,

this is how i would approach this..
since i love cougars.. i think i can may be help you out..

you know her for about two years, she already has mad comfort with you..
you take her out something or some place that would be high vibe and high value.

i take girls out to places that we can both experience and make things..
even tho its cheap, you can say something like.. aren't we both lucky?? we are creating something together and i am so glad that i can share it with you

kino-sweetheart...

once it goes down... your instinct will know what to do.. make sure to keep eye contact and bed eyes here and there and sexual framing

good luck buddy

Hmm, good idea. And if I'm ever in the area I'll definitely look you up.

I considered telling her that she should meet me at this really cool bar that's just up the way from where she works...but I wasn't sure if that was such a good idea.

Thanks for the advice.

if bar, and if its only day 2...

you should meet her for happy hours.

def. keep the momentum going and keep it fun and playful..
day 2 should be about 45 to an hour but depends on the target if she is down to fuck or not...

if u can keep on kino-ing and keep her interested than go all the way.. trust your guts...

if not, leave her with making her want to know more about you and interested about you.. and before you leave, also make sure that you kinda made sure about day 3. lol

good luck buddy,

Dear AgentO.

in my opinion, if we can name a ´lesbian game´ the first step is:

To SHOW that you are lesbian and in your world it is NORMAL.

If a woman I approach says: I am into men...
I say: REALLY?! like it is a ´not normal thing` to be straight. This is quite funny!

Many women flirt, they KNOW anyway if you are lesbian/ interested, and they spot truly EVERY WEAKNESS of you.
You´re shy? she ´ll check this
You are afraid to show that you are gay: she´ll check this
You are gay and interested? : she´ll check it.

Never forget.

My game´s base is: to show like it is NORMAL: I am lesbian, and yes, I find you attravctive- BUT: i don´t know you ( I didn´t buy you already just because you are sexy, because I don´t KNOW you!I find you attractive- but have to see if you fit MY bills and MY standards!!)

This is key, I guess. All the other stuff, like unspoken things and thought what she might think/ feel is kinda supplication! YOu invest way to much in what SHE thinks, is just MINDGAMES.

If I CAN SEE that a woman is lesbian, so this is different- but if I am not sure, I bring this topic soon on table- but like it is normal for me and have no probs to show it.

Example: I open with a compliment: I must say, I like your face I´d like to get to know you maby a little bit better ( with a smile:)

If she talks with me, and shows interest, I do small talk / touch her lightely and ask If she has a ´boyfriend´ .
If she says ´no´ I ask: ok, do you have a girlfriend?
If she says ´no´ ( and then I got the topic already on table:homosexuality...)
I say: why?
and so on.
Later I say that she is attractive and my type-and then she has to answer IF she is bisexual or open for it.

I must say, some girls PLAY like if they are interested, they send texts and say they wanna date and so on, even if they are not interested.
And then they FLAKE- I made this experience especially here in germany, where people in general are very jealous and afraid of new things- I found out a girl texted me, because she was angry that someone does that: I approached her at the railway station in a very good and confidence manner- I think she knew that I do this regualry, and not many people would do that!

So think of it- there are not ALWAYS women out there who are mentally and sexually healthy. Some simply hate sex and sensuality- they are completely f...d up and lie and so on!

Thank god there ARE some great girls/ women- it is our work to find them and sort them out of the ´bad stuff´:)

much love from germany!

Sylvia