Sup ya'll. New here so here goes. I've known this girl for almost 3 months now. Shes a mutual friend of my boys so we hang out a lot. We've done everything except fuck. I am a flirt and she always plays along, she does the calling and wanting to hookup, always teasing that I have too many girls keeping me from seeing her - so from the surface of it all, it seems shes the one chasing. Just when I was contemplating turning full game on her and F-closing, she comes up with the 'Been seeing someone for a while now' line and I hope this doesn't mess our friendship..basically LJBF crap. Need some PUA insights on what to do with this situation. Cheers

So what if she's been seeing someone.

It doesn't mean anything.

Women do it all the time despite seeing someone or not.

Its her way or letting go of responsibility for the actions you may take-if you're good at PU(lol).

Meaning,she doesn't get the blame if you were to lay her. Because she'd already told you ahead of time that she's taken or seeing s.o.

So if you were to lay her(which she wants),you get the blame since she'd already told you but you didn't listen and proceeded anyway(lol).

Sounds confusing but it's chick-logic.

I've learned that insight many years ago from reading online-PU newsletters by the gurus.

It's same as if a woman tells you that she has a bf.

She's not telling you that to deter you.

She's telling you that #1)to see if you're a real man and would still proceed.

#2)If you were to lay her,she doesn seem like a slut,cheater nor does she get the blame because she did tell you that she was taken.

Now lets say her bf was to find out she cheated. She has the satisfaction of saying that"I told him I had a bf but he didn't listen(lol)".

So when she tells you she's seeing s.o.,dont buy it. Or buy it yet still proceed as though you didn't hear her.

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