I have now hung out with this girl from work the last 2 nights. I kiss closed on night 1, as we only hung out for about 1.5 hrs and then tonight we hung out for about 3 hrs. and we messed around a bit. I fingered her, played with her massive tits, she played with my cock, real basic stuff. She's 19 and I'm 24, by the way.

However, I really wanna fuck her and I think this could happen during our day 3.

But, I could see her being one that wont let me hit it for a while unless
i'm her boyfriend. Im thinking I could use some freezeouts, some of which I tried tonight with some success. But I dont know if I wanna date her, just fuck her.

how do I avoid being trapped into dating her when i just want a fuck buddy?

she is Hb8 with massive massive tits.

what's a freezeout?

just get things going, try 870's no sex gambit, and then tell her you're not looking for a serious relationship when she's already super turned on. things should work fine.


and a freezeout is where you kind of push her back and take away all the good feelings you've given her in the moments before the freezeout so that she'll start doing what you want so the good feelings can stay.

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I dunno how much it would bother you but you might want to consider TWO things i find work from experience (one is a bit more devious and easier)

1) Go all "let's go out" obtain what you want and then leave her (that's the less honnest and easier way of doing things, depends how honorable you are)

2) Go all "Let's go out", ACTUALLY go out with her, tell her you love her and become all loving and lame. When she sees the difference between your game and who you are in the relationship she's going to get grumpy, then disrespectful ,then leave you, normally within 2weeks to 2 months (and she'll feel good about herself)

That last one is more honnest but takes longer and might give you a reputation if that girl belongs to a close social circle of yours.

Sometimes hurting another human being in the short run is the only way of not hurting your chances in the long run

Dude,

Just be honest about not willing to have a relationship. Don't waste her time if she's looking for a relationship and save yourself some guild feelings.

My experience (And I have a lot of experience) is when you're honest about that stuff, you're getting laid even faster! Allright.. if you want to beat her around the bush, you can warm her up first until the moment is right there, then tell her.. It's a way to get laid and being honest at the same time. Her buying temp. will be so high, that she won't think rationally and she'll let it happen.

Make things horny and sexy and sex will happen, women want sex to, and most of the time they aren't looking for a relationship. Just guide her trough the proces as a gentleman and she will follow.

If she's being clear about only having sex in a relationship, respect that and save her some pain.


Laaater

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This is one of the most stupid things ive ever heard. Why should he get in in a relationship he doesnt want in first place?

A simple freeze-out will suffice. Or if she does bring out this subject just tell her you are not of those rush ones that coerce themselves into a relationship and just like enjoying what you have, and if she wants a relationship she better off not with a bad boy like you. (all this you gotta say when you previously put her in a very high energy and enjoying state)

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with a cock in her mouth." ~60 Years Of Challenge

why not try the most obvious.... be honest? dont exactly tell her you jsut want to be fuck buddies, but tell her your not looking for a relationship, then you cant be to blame. i have gotten alot better results than i thought i would by being honest, but it really is the key if you dont want to lead her on and feel like a jerk...

GoodLuck,

F|y

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