i'd always start my convo with my target, she likes it but unlike anyother girl i talk to, she never start a convo i dont wanna start a convo all the time ( that would make me loook like an afc) but i waited for 4 days, and stilll nothing.... what to do now ?

Ask her questions about herself and watch her answers if they are blunt you might think shes ignoring you but she could also be having a bad day or she might not shut up like most girls when you ask them to talk about their favourite thing in the world...themself:P

i doo i dooo but the thing is , we flirt lots and i ask her bout herself lots too, but still could it be shes applieing the cat string theory on me ?? if so how do defuse this bomb !!?

If she never initiates and you always have to send the first text, then she might not be interested. If she were, she would make some effort to contact you after you stop texting her for a couple days.

You might be wasting your time. You text her first, and she likes the attention enough to keep you around by responding. But, she doesn't care enough to initiate. I say, freeze her out. If she eventually texts you then she might like you (or might just be craving some validation). If she doesn't text you, then she doesn't like you and you knew you were wasting your time.

Also, ask yourself this: What have you done in the times that you have texted her to make her want to text you? What have you shown her you have to offer?

thanks for the reply thomas i tried the freeze out but it didnt work like a charm like it would to any other girl.... is weird i think the reason is tooo many competition ? or she already has someone in mind..... could it be i just got out gamed ?

You might as well as been "gaming" on a play station. By texting her all this time and NOT telling her, "Hey, what are you doing this weekend? I'm thinking about going to the _______. Wanna go?" You made HER feel as if she was "gaming" on a play station.

Why the talk of "freeze outs"? What is it that you think your "freezing" her from? . . . An incredibly sexy time of jabbing her thumbs on a telephone?

She hasn't given you any bad responses yet. ASK HER OUT.