Im definitely not ugly, and I got everything else I think I could need but I must admit I am waaaay to thin, even lanky some might say... Some girls dont mind, but for the ones who do its a very big problem, especially the really hot ones.

Ive tried gaining weight, infact spent most of my life trying to but it seems pretty much impossible. So is there anything I can do when on a date with a girl to make her not care about my weight?? To show her it doesnt matter, coz Ill still be better in bed than any other guy shes been with. I think most people have some thing about themselves they dislike and have to make up for in other ways, but what can I do about this??

Okay buddy. This is my first contribution to the forum.

I have the same body type as you mate.

"So is there anything I can do when on a date with a girl to make her not care about my weight?? "

One of the key things you can do is adopt the mindset that you are not bothered about your size. This is quite difficult to do when we are bombarded with magazines and media showing big guys. If you are really not bothered and she says anything about your weight she will detect that it didn't bother you.

Consider that:-
Many male catwalk models are very slim.
Many hot girls like slim guys.

My best mate is VERY skinny, but VERY confident and gets loads of hot girls. It is all about mindset.

Other than that you can have comebacks like:-
"This is my fighting weight"
"I'm built for speed"
OR
"Its better than being fat" - use with care and be careful of the tone you use.

Incidentally, many of the girls who have said similar things to me, on talking to them I have found that they have personality / confidence issues. Several girls who used to pick me up on it all the time were very overweight themselves (!?). If a girl picks you up on this she probably (no, she has) has many issues of her own.

Try getting a tan (I don't condone sunbeds), which makes me look better.

Choose you clothes well, t-shirts / jumpers with horizontal stripes work well.

Other than that do weights at the gym, but bear in mind your growth is more dependent on what you eat rather than just the weights.

Take care mate, (sorry for any mistakes, typed quickly)
Rich

I cant gain weight either.....just get shredded, and when ever thet say "oh your to skinny" just lift up your shirt and say OH REALLY?

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dead serious I have done it a plenty of times, KINO like hell from the chick.

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I had the same problem as you. I am not talking about the body (I still have it), but the part where you make it a big deal.

I seriously, don't see why this can affect your game. Sure some girls don't like it, but some girls don't like muscle guys too. It's like you, you can't like every "type" of girl, if you do good for you, but people have preferences and it's normal.

Also like K-Mac said, try to work out a little bit. It's in your advantage. I have a 6 pack, not a big one but enough to feel it and see it. Also it's way easier to get one when you are already slim. I got mine after about 1month. Exercice 2-3 times a week, jogging ect and be healthy.

Good luck.

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Sorry for my english mistakes.

What do you mean you can't get weight? did you try hitting the local gym? having a right nutritional schedule?

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with a cock in her mouth." ~60 Years Of Challenge

This ^.

There is no such thing as "can't gain wait" there is only "not eating enough to gain weight". Barring the possibility that you have worms or a 1 in a million thyroid disorder, weight is a function of consumption. Nothing more nothing less.

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The game is easy to start, the referee blows the whistle. It's where you go from there that matters.

Ok... first to address the issue of "not being able to gain weight" if you know so little people or are so ignorant that you think theres no such thing then thats a bigger problem than I have... I eat over 2000kcal a day, which is 4-5 meals of high cal food and work out for 20 minutes every single day and do not gain weight... thats the truth.

Ok, now back to picking up girls.. In my experience I find there are many types of girls who like many types of guys, but usually the hottest like the more built up guys. And most PUAs know that one of the most important traits to have in a man is to be able to protect a girl, so it makes sense when they want a bigger, stronger guy. But I think most people are right that all you can do apart from try harder to gain weight is to not give a shit. Lifting up your shirt and showing your skinny 6pac is a great idea, Ill totally use that next time I get any skinny comments! Thx for the advice Kpac and others. Wish me a good result the next time Im lifting up my shirt in a club!

I'm 6 feet tall and went to bootcamp weighing 165 which is considered lightweight and left bootcamp weighing 144 which was 4 lbs above my minimum weight for marine corps standards.

don't give a shit and they won't give a shit.

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4 or 5 meals of high cal food should be WAY more than 2000kcal!

agreed.

a bottle of mountain dew and a smuckers crustable peanut butter and jelly sandwich is 480 calories or some shit like that.

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No wonder you don't gain weight, that is not NEARLY enough food, particulalry with your workout schedule. I eat 2800 calories per day when I am CUTTING weight (but my training and conditiong program is fairly intensive). Most people when bulking will eat around 2500 calories, but age, height, metabolism and many other factors can impact this greatly. I know guys who are hardgainers (fast metabolisms) who eat between 3000 and 3500 calories while they are bulking.

Increase your intake and you will see results. That is all there is to it.

If you think you will find it hard to keep this up the easiest way to increase your calorie intake is to drink large serves of whey protien (a balanced one that includes carbs) shakes with full cream milk. You can easily up your intake by 400-1000 calories through doing this alone. If possible try and drink only 2 shakes per day. One first thing in the morning (for fast release protien after your sleep) and one after your workout.

I have said this before but weight gain/loss is a mathematical formula, not something that some people are simply exempt from. If your calories going in exceed the number of calories you expend, then you WILL gain weight.

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The Enforcer.

The game is easy to start, the referee blows the whistle. It's where you go from there that matters.