Couple nights ago I met two girls. I used a lot of DHV and had a nice chat with them (maybe 30 minutes). Did also the "pick a number" trick. Later I gave the other girl my name so she could add me in facebook. I actually didn't think she would do that but she did.

So now I'm thinking what would be cool way to contact her. I know this may sound like a simple question but I have done so many things wrong in the past..

The girl lives in a city not too far way and I live in a small town with no shops and I actually need to go to the city to buy some stuff anyway, so maybe I could message her something like this? "Hi. I'm coming to the city next week to buy some stuff. Let me know if you want to have a dinner with me."

If she agrees I have another problem. I can be energetic and tell DHVs and chat for a little while. But I'm afraid I run out of topics at some point and she'll notice that I'm not actually that self-confident. Do you have any suggestions?

The girl seemed a little shy and also if she agreeds to meet me she could be interested in me so I shouldn't probably neg her, right?

The best way to ask a girl out is to be very direct and straight forward, you dont really need any DHV stories, those are just for losers who have nothing impressive in their life, just make sure your life is awesome instead, thats the real way to live anyways.

As for topics, I usually get her started to talk about her interests and her life, by doing this you keep her on familiar ground and she will feel comfortable around you. Just try to direct the conversation with a minimum amount of questions, make statements rather than questions!

For more advice check out my "10 things..." thread linked below

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