Well been lacking in confidence lately then i use to, dont noe why but i think its cause of the fact that i dont work with girls in my work place or i am surrounded by my guy mates every weekend..

But been getting AA bad and i rekon its due to the fact that i am afraid of rejection

I made the idea to go out with 2 of my guy mates, put in $20 each and whoever gets rejected the most get the pot

Will this method eliminate the fear ? or is there a better way ?

help will be much appreciated

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Living Life without fear

That is a fun way to tackle the issue of approach anxiety but I doubt it will be really effective. Personally I think there is no total cure for AA (short of prescription meds) but I also think that is healthy.

Mystery and Matador (two of the most famous PUA's in the world and two people who I personally have unlimited respect for) both admit to getting AA even at thier current stage.

I think the key is learning to:
1) Manage AA using the 3 second rule.
2) Embrace it as part of the process.

Mystery actually admits to the fact that he feels AA as soon as any new HB enters the bar, not because he is approachng, but because he is conditioned to approach every HB in the bar and his body pre-empts the approach. AA is normal - but you need to (as with many things in the game) react with an abnormal response.

Good luck.

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Regards,

The Enforcer.

The game is easy to start, the referee blows the whistle. It's where you go from there that matters.