So I have been gamin this chick from work for awhile now and she is totally into me. she is only 19 and i am 24. Im mainly just lookin to bang her but im open to dating as well.

so last night we make plans to hang out tonight, after she gets off work - i had the night off. last night, i texted her and we just kinda made small talk, flirted a bit. I ended the text conversation by saying

me: "let me know when you wanna get together tomorrow, sweet dreams."

her: "okay, sounds good. I love you, goodnight!"

this is where the conversation should have ended.

20 mins later:

her:"if you're not working tomorrow, we can hang out then instead"

me: "that's cool, hit me up when you get done with work"

her: "ok, i will"

so today, come 10 pm, when she usually gets finished at work, she hasn't called or texted me. so I sent a message at 10:20 ish and said "what's up?"

no response.

my question is, how do i play this out. do i text her tomorrow, or pretend like i dont care too much and wait for her to text me? the ball is essentially in her court and i dont wanna come off as needy.

any help is appreciated. thanks

Women are smart my friend.

She knows you're into her and she doesn't want to seem like you have easy access.

My advice is simple, you took the initiative to make the first attempt after she didn't respond. That's all it takes. The ball is in her court. So leave it at that and flat out move on.

If (and more than likely when) she gets back to you and gives you some lame excuse such as not getting your text message or you selling out, do not bite into that trap. Play it off like you tried to get a hold of her but it was no worries and what ever you do, do not jump into getting into another date at that moment.

Let her instigate the next hook up. Then you will consider it and choose to except it.

If this does not happen. Drop her or put her on the back burner and move on.

D.

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Exactly what DDrake said. Wait for her to initiate next contact AND the next date. In the meantime, work on another girl.