So! Yesterday I go next door to this huge party that my neighbor was having for his birthday and valentines day. There was about 50 or so older people there, that I was mingling with for a few hours. I noticed my HB9 neighbor sitting up on this balcony by herself so I walked up, and started a little conversation.

I started out by telling her that her grand parents were crazy, and how much i loved it because they were drunk and hilarious. We were just sitting back flirting for about 30 minutes or so. I didn't use anything canned, just natural conversation. After the 30 minutes we went inside and her grandpa asked me to play guitar for everyone so I played for a bit, and mingled some more.

Now! My question to anyone who wishes to help me out is: What is the next step? Should I wait to engage her when I see her by coincidence? Should I go over to her house and ask her for a walk or something? What would be the best course of action in my current situation? Thanks in advance, and I really look forward to seeing where this can lead to with some true PUA help!

No one can help?

Need a little more info.. How old are you? Do you have her number? Facebook?

If you have her number, try a witty text, and then start an interaction from there. I would say wait, but I don't know how often you see this girl. So it really depends.

If you don't have her number, wait a day or so, and then try and contact her somehow (randomly of course)

Walks are cool, any kind of hanging out. Tell her you need to go (somewhere) and she's free to tag along. She won't go with you, unless you've built up enough rapport however. This I don't know either.

Let me know.

Thanks a bunch dude! I'm 19 and I don't have her number, just her facebook. If I just happen to see her outside (I usually do every other day or so) should I just say "hey I'm goin for a walk wanna come?" If I were to contact her on facebook what would good thing to say?

I'm fairly confident that I have built up enough rapport get her to come along for a walk, but I guess we will see.

I also found out that she likes surfing, should I maybe ask her to go surfing? I'm sorry if I'm being limited.

I look forward to your response!!

time is counting down mr coffee! =(

Go for it my friend, Walks are great, nice intimate conversation. generally quiet, good place to game.

DHV, tell stories, neg neg neg.

As far as starting it out..

Try a good old fashioned (if you see her outside) "You look like you're up to no good" (smile)

or facebook chat "You causing trouble" something cheeky like that. always remain high value. don't jump through hoops.

And make sure to get the number close ON the walk! You will own it sir!

keep me posted!

Every tip you give me is hugely beneficial! I just talked to her on facebook, I kept the conversation interesting and quick, then told her I had to go hang out with some friends and just logged off. Tomorrow I'm ganna ask her for the walk.

Saying "you look like you're up to no good" sounds like an awesome way to engage her. Starting the conversation is usually my weakest point. I'll let you know how it goes and thanks a bunch for all the help man!