Hey guys i just need some guidance on what to do,

basicly a fewmonths back i was really close with this girl, we went all the way and after that we started arguing almost daily until we stopped talking, we are on the same college course and i hate seeing us always making remarks about each other, im unsure on what to do, i was thinking sending her an email asking her if she wanted to go for a coffee in town and talk about everything that happened, but as i said i need some experts opinions :p

And also i need some help opening on a hb9, i dont hqve the confidence so i was wondering if anyone had some really easy ways to get a convo going :p


Thanks steve14

Welcome to the forum Steve.

About the first chick, DON'T email her. Phone her. This shows your confidence, and she's less likely to flake. And don't say "we need to talk about what happened" be more laid back and cool, "hey you wanna hang out?" or "you wanna grab a coffee?" and tell her the time and place, don't let her decide when and where - you're the alpha.

As for the HB9, you'd be surprised how little an opener matters. Just make sure you are, or at least appear, confident, and go over and talk to her. Try a simple "hey" or use a situational opener. Be interesting and fun in the conversation, set time constraints, etc etc. Have you got any more information to share about the HB9?

~Deebo

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