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PostPosted: Sat Feb 13, 2010 1:24 am 
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Hi guys,

I'm quite new in this field but I have read the basic stuff of picking up. It seems to me that most techniques/advices are for situations where you are picking up a person you have never met before.

What if the girl of your interest is a friend or a person you already know? How do you make up mistakes maybe done previously and get the girl interested in you?

I would be glad if someone could point me out a direction were to go!


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PostPosted: Sat Feb 13, 2010 1:41 am 
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It all depends on the situation. If you have a particular girl in mind, explain how you met her, how long you've known her, if you've tried anything before, etc.


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PostPosted: Sat Feb 13, 2010 2:21 am 
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Ok.
Well, the particular case I have in my mind right now is quite new, I met the girl in school 2 weeks ago. We see often in school and in parties as well.

So far, we've just been discussing this and that. I've used some openers I have found with google as a starting points for discussions. I have also performed couple card tricks. However, I haven't used for example any negs.

I think she thinks I'm ok but she doesn't seem to be that interested in me.

So I don't know should I try to neg her? (At this point it might be too late.)
Should I try to act as I couldn't care less?

I would also like to know some principals in general (if there are some) when dealing with friends or people you have known some time.


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If she just thinks you're 'ok' right now, you're going to have to show her your value. I would use the next party you are both at to tell some good DHV stories, be the life of the party. Flirt with some other girls.


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Yeah I agree... Tell some DHV stories. And flirt with other girls.

There's this saying that kept popping into my head as I read your post...

Women Want What They THINK They Can't Have

This remains true to this day.

This don't mean to totally blow her off, you should show that you are interested in
her, but not be too available to her, or for her.

If she asks you to do something for her, tell her, "you can do it yourself" IF IN FACT
SHE CAN DO IT HERSELF.. if it means moving something heavy for her, just tell her,
"aight, I'll do it, but you have to give me something..." If she says, "like what.." just
act like you're thinking and then say with a slight smile, "a hug..."

I'm sure you can make up your own shit now. If not, just run some lines by the
community so we can critique them and modify for you.

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Thanks guys, I think I got the idea.


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If you are trying to change your dynamic with someone you already know, you can just frame yourself as a different kind of person. You already know her, so just start gaming, but you don't need to approach, and open.. Just start a conversation. from there, YES, definitely neg and start in A2, DHV often, always frame yourself as alpha.

When one girl becomes too important, remember... "It's not the girl.. It's the process"
~Mystery?

but that being said "attraction is not a choice" ~David D. If you make sure to be THE alpha male of the group, or AMOG, fake it if you have to, but ALWAYS be the center of attention, never be needy. Talk to her, DHV, but don't telegraph your interest. And unless she has built up attraction for you, yes.. definitely neg. and


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