Hey all,

Its been a while since I've posted to this forum as I found one Local to my community (Ottawa ON CAN http://www.otownlair.com) and have been posting mostly there.

My question and dilemma come from some interesting interactions I've been facing and observing with the girls that I've been associating with.

It comes down to the fact that I've been part of the community for about a year now from the information whore all the way into practice a few times a week. The issues that I am encountering come very centered along the same NEWBIE limiting beliefs and core values.

• - If I start talking with her she'll be pissed/annoyed/uninterested
  - She is too good for me
  - I don't deserve this quality of lady
  - I'd rather listen to my music
  - ....

Now before you all jump down and slam on this, I want to simply state that this is not AA, as I will approach and often close. These concerns work their way in each time and blow up my day 2 or phone/text after the fact.

I have had limited success in the field, I can solidly number/email/Facebook close 2 to 3 girls in a given night at a bar but run into flaking issues. My day game is (in my humble opinion) very consistent with closes above the 50% mark.

The difference I'm seeing is in the core beliefs, and the question I'm trying to ask is something that my small community has been unable to answer to my satisfaction.

What are some good books / threads / material to read and work at in order to develop core beliefs and mindsets. Any good advice is greatly appreciated.

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Granit
me.granit@gmail.com
www.otownlair.com