Say you do something nice for a girl you like. Why do they pull back and stop talking to you unless you initiate. What is the right action to do when they do that? Ignore them for a while?

Don't do anything for free. Think about how much we appreciate something we work hard for. It's like the guy who saves for 2 years to buy his first car versus the guy who's dad buys him a Porsche at 16. Who appreciates it more?

Let her earn your attraction, your kindness and your favor.

Once you give her something for free, it's just not fun for her anymore. That's why she pulls back.

You become a 'provider' and fall back into the same categories as everybody else she's met so far. I agree with the make her earn it thought here.

I guess you could call it another shit test, when you do something nice for free the girl will tend to be disappointed that you are SPAM something that she hasn't earned.

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Investment is the key word.

The more you get her to invest in you, the more she'll enjoy it. Make her ride the bus instead of going and picking her up, I guarantee she'll enjoy the sex twice as much!

When your putting an un-reciprocated high level of investment in her, she has no reason to invest in you in order to achieve that high level investment. That makes you beta.

The poor girl just wants something to chase (and who could blame her).

I'd say give it up with this girl and continue in pursuit of the next alluring woman that walks your way.

Practice makes perfect yo!

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Crowd to Crowd

Invest as someone said. Let them earn you, it's the guys that do it all for free get fucked over. Don't be a mug! Now is time to leave things here for a while.