Hello everyone. I was fortunate enough to discover the PUA community 6-8 months ago and I have got to say it definitely has set me on a different path. I have been doing great with girls that i have not met before, but when the occasion came with one of the hottest girls in my school, I just fucked up. I hope that you can bear with the AFC tale i am about to retell, and perhaps give me some advice.

She is a year younger than me, so the first time i saw her was when my Phys ed class shared the same room as hers. I did flirt with her and sensed that both of us liked eachother. I didn't think of pursuing it further until I was just walking with my friends down the hall, I smiled at her and she suddenly came out of her class and said in a flirting way , so what do you want? The very next day I got a rose, did the same thing, and when she came out, I told her to say that again and then i told her i wanted her to go out with me on Sunday etc.(Gotta say it was pretty romantic xD) She said she kinda had a boyfriend, but i pulled the I’m not interested in your boyfriend, I’m interested in you line and she said yes....


....Now comes the epic fail...



I didn't have my phone on me so I couldn't get her number, so I did get it two days after but i was kind of weird about it. Than I was going to call her on Saturday, and i thought her phone was off.. I called her compulsively believing that it was off, so she wouldn’t get it. it turned out that she just had it at home... Then she calls me back, I seemed to talked pretty well, until she said that she wasn’t available that day. Than i just asked every other day, making it seem like i wasn’t busy. She says she will call me back in a minute. She calls up, hangs up quickly, than i call back (shouldn’t have done that) and she says she has a boyfriend.....Well i think both of us knew this.... But I wasn't going to get any crazier so I thought I would just ask her like a week later. I did but then she just gave the phone to her boyfriend… This definitely was a bitch move so I thought I would just forget her.
After that, her friends just started talking to me out of nowhere. There was an occasion when I was talking to some of my friends, which she did not know about math, and she just walked all the way from the other side to make some mundane conversation. She always talked to me etc. I guess i wasn't able to handle rejection well so i just couldn't get myself to speak normally, just using shrugs and yes and nos. Just when her friends started talking to me though i knew that she had broken up with her bf, but again i did not pursue further.

I would like to believe that i developed substantially since then, but it just keeps lingering in my mind. I wanted to hear your opinion on what i should do next. Is it a lost cause, or should i try one more time. If i should, I really don't know how to go about it.

typical case of clingy-ness.... um ... about the 485 missed calls on her phone you left her... that made you look desperate... um, a txt would ahve been fine, she can respond when she wants .... persoanlly form experience, i dont let these..." maybe shes ignoring me, maybe this or that" or "what if" get in the way .... remember , you have other options ...dragging out a cat and mouse game for 1 month and getting the girl, is more fun than a clingy game of tag that lasts 5 days and losing

Thanks for the insight bro ^^. I can see how many things i did wrong , but I still am not quite sure as to what to do now?

you can make her jealous of you and another girl.... talk to other girls infront of her .. you know, laugh with them, joke around , try look happy ( even though shouldnt need much effort)... she will respond to this, after youve made it obvious that you have " moved on" try talking her.. shell will bring up the fact that youve been "ignoring" her and while your talking mention that you and the other girl are friends (this is important, but try not make it sound like your covering anything up; it makes you look less than alpha, make it casual)... if this works you have her attention...remember , pretend like everyday is your birthday, its your day(month..year.... life...what ever)... sounds liek your in high school, am i correct?....

hmm I can try that. I always play around so this hopefully won't be too hard. And yup, second last year of high school.