Here is my situation in a nutshell. I used to work with this girl at a restaurant, but at the time I was seeing someone and so was she. We've kind of had this unspoken chemistry the whole time we worked together, however, and now that we are both not seeing anyone (and not working together anymore), I want to close on her. We kind of have mutual friends in common, but I don't have her phone number. I contacted her on facebook and she finally contacted me back after a month, saying she never gets on to check her profile page. I saw her a few weeks back too and we made mild chit chat. She works for a catoring company so I asked her if they're hiring servers on weekends to attempt to disqualify myself as a potential suitor. It was a short message indictating time constraint so I feel like it opens the door to future gaming. If she says no they're not, how can I pursue it to number close? It seems like it would be tough running game through messaging. Any suggestions would be great. I'm kind of a newbie to all of this and would appreciate the help. Thanks.

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ShadyLane