I'm 23 and I have some fitness goals I've set for myself. I've lost 70lbs, plan to lose another 70 + getting toned.

Now I miss the regular sex of having a gf so i've been toying with the idea of finding one.

I know I will be able to get the girls I find very attractive once I get closer to those goals I've set. But right now my options for a potential gf i feel are only mediocre in physical appearance in my eyes. (meaning I have no problem having sex with them, but their is no chance of long term because they are not up to my long term appearance standards.)

With that in mind, You can't really tell a girl that you only want to date her for a couple months while you get your shit together so you can find a better looking gf. This would involve leading a girl on pretty much to have sex with her.

Is this a jerk move or should I just do it. Is it wrong to lead someone on? or is it only wrong if you think its wrong?

I recommend finding Fuck Buddies, Friends With Benefits, and One Night Stands. As long as you are honest about your intentions you are bound to find women who are totally open to what you're really looking for. In the meantime you can always keep your eye out for a girl more suitable to your long-term needs.

Chief has always got some good advice but i wanted to add some more.

First off, how you look to a girl (in terms of being in shape) is only about 5% of your game, if that...
I would say that looks barely even make up 20% of your game and cleanliness and fashion would be the majority of that (good breath, clean hair and clothes, so on).Its the mind set that will get you laid.

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For your situation, i would suggestion the jugglar method. This method actually allows you to be honest right from the beggining (by this i mean before you fclose rather than after). However this method really requires strong confidence. If you are planning on doing pick up give this a shot.

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What a dick! Right!?!

I agree with Chief. To make it nice for the girl (instead of leading her on) you should find someone, or multiple chicks that understand they are short term girls

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No, I'm not from Fiji. It's just a stupid screen name. I'm Ricky, Newb PUA from PR

honesty is the best policy.... cuz we're guys, apperantly we're always wrong anyway ... lol